Late Nights Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 (edited) And that's what she said. If anyone here has read my post from before well i finally have a clear answer from my ex gf now thanks to another girl who screen shotted thier text msg. We tried to start fresh and take is slow but i blew it again because of what she feeling me vs what i saw from a screenshot convo. I know its bad for me to ask the other girl for it but atleast i have some kind of clarity. She tells the other girl she's done with me but tells me let's be friends and see where it goes. My friend heard both sides and seen the msgs and she's confused herself if shes lying to her or me. I shouldn't have called her after i saw the screen shot my friend sent me but it just made me really confused what is her motive and who's she lying to? Im a virgo so my logical side started to analyze it all. The conclusion is either she is lying to me or the other female friend. Sometimes girls have pride and ego that they want to show other girls they are strong so they will say things different to another girls or her female friend but on the other hand says different. Im just going to say that shes lying to me. After i called to ask i bugged her again we went back n forth to the point she decided she's done and doesn't want to even work it out anymore or be friends and this is the time i will hear from her ever agian and if she doesnt respond if i contact her then i know why. She even threw in saying i dint rent to yell you my plan but my plan was to give you 2 weeks to start small dinner hang out, etc and if i see change then we will have a chance again and be a couple". Breadcrumbs. She even added i don't even have to hear from you for the rest of my life until i die. Ouch! So i politely agreed with her decision as a woman and after i had my final say to her i hung up. She texted right after saying something along the lines "i didn't have to be this way but u made me and i made my decision and im done goodbye have a good life etc etc.." I didn't respond to that. The next day i wanted to test her out so i asked her if i can atleast see the photo we took for NYE together. 15mins later she responds "No". Didn't reply back to that and i went NC. Friday night came by and i got a text from her around midnight and she sent that photo of us. I didn't respond. The next thing i saw was her posting a selfie on her snapchat which she NEVER and rarely post anything. I didn't look because i know she was trying to see if i will click on it. Nope. After all of that i thought those were signs but i realize now that it was only breadcrumbs. Today she was suppose to go get her stomach checked up for the random pain and cramps she has. This morning at 6:09am i sent a brief text "rise&shine beautiful i hope today goes wellfor you *sun emojis* you know thinking i saw signs but it was crumbs. All day no reply. Called her phone once around 9pm no reply. My other female friend was texting her by that time. Got the screenshot of her telling my friend she has no more emotions and she was hoping to see a change. She didn't want to force herself to hold on anymore. Ofcourse after the breakup we never went NC until we or i mean ME burnt her out of her emotions. Everything is clear now for me on what i must do. Supose my female friend convinced her to be friends with me even tho she "lost all her emotions for me a long time ago" "can't keep forcing herself to hold on thinking im going to change" to which i have started changing and working on myself before all of this. My friend convinced and told her to atleast call or text me which she "will respond" tomorrow. She tells someone one thing but says another thing to me along with those breadcrumbs. Im at the point where im done chasing. Im moving forward and im not looking back so if she trying to string me in then she better run. The funny thing is that shes active on instagram but at the same tume her instagram still has all the photos of us together on it to this day but facebook pics deleted. Sigh* what are everyone thoughts on this? Edited January 12, 2017 by Late Nights
Jimmyjackson Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 She told you she's done with you and you kept calling/texting, why? You know how she feels so what's the question? She's moved on. Time for you to do the same. 1
Author Late Nights Posted January 12, 2017 Author Posted January 12, 2017 She told you she's done with you and you kept calling/texting, why? You know how she feels so what's the question? She's moved on. Time for you to do the same. Only because i saw those breadcrumbs which i thought it was her showing me she is still thinking about me. You know how only you know how your ex is and that was what i thought when she text me our picture. In the past when we got into small arguements she would text me or pictures of us all the time. I broke my NC and thought she might be cooled of because i finally gave her that space. But yea this time around im not looking back this time i really need to stay moving forward. Also i figured out what it was between us. Shes and Aries and im a virgo and i read up on that compatibility and man it sucks.
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