Brwniyedlady Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 Hi All, New to loveshack! I went on a date last saturday, we live about 45 mins from each other. I think we had a good time he complimented me and we ended up kissing. He mentioned how he'd like to hang out again but no solid date was made. I noticed he left his jacket in my car. So I wait a few days to let him know he left it asking if how he would like to get it returned. He says: "shooot that's my favorite jacket when will you be in town again?" I really didn't want to drive to his place and preferred for him to come to me. I mention something along the line of I'm not sure and ask him if he could make it my way. He says, " yeah eventually just don't know when". I then proceed to ask if he has any plans for this weekend, and he says " the only thing I possibly have going on is taking my friend out and his wife, but he hasn't said if he still wants to do that so idk yet. If he doesn't end up wanting to go out I'll try to drive up there if you want to hang out". Prior to this/ me reaching out letting him know about his jacket. The night after our hang out he liked my new profile picture on Facebook and today he liked another selfie I posted. Are these good signs? He hasn't really texted since but was really a big texted prior to our hang out so idk. 1
CaliforniaGirl Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 (edited) Honestly, these answers seem pretty lukewarm to me. If he wants the jacket THAT much, he can come get it. If not, you can tell him you'll be in town two months from now or whenever you'll legitimately be in town, without going out of your way. Because I mean this is on him. I don't mean say any of this in a nasty way or anything. This is just logic. Be pleasant about it. I don't see him making any effort, and he's already trying to establish that you will come to him. Just...lazy. Just meh. He may want you, but only if you're convenient. That's how I'd read it. *For now.* Who knows, he may step up and legitimately outright state he'd like to see you again. But as to the matter of the jacket, let him deal with that. It was his mistake and it's inconvenient for you to drive out to him right now. If he's crazy in love with the jacket he'll come get it, or will send you a UPS label to ship it back or whatever. Edited January 12, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language ~T
Ronnys93 Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 I mean in general, social media doesn't mean all that much in the grand scheme of things. However, I do think the guy likes you. I mean, I wouldn't get hung up on whether or not he likes your pictures. The fact that he's keeping himself available to see you if plans don't work out is a positive sign. Just keep the communication up and see where things go! 1
Satu Posted January 12, 2017 Posted January 12, 2017 Social media is a place where people have 'friends' they don't know, and 'like' things that don't interest them. Its got little to do with the real world. Take care. 2
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