jessiann Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 There's this guy at work I've been sort of observing for the last few weeks. He's very nice and funny and he's not that cute (he's not ugly, well I'm attracted to him) and I don't know what to make of it.. It all started when 2 months ago he kept looking at me until he went up to me and said that I looked like X or Y girl from a soap opera, and that she was pretty, and I didn't pay much attention to it, I just laughed. So after that I've been observing his attitude towards others and me and I'm so attracted to him, I get nervous whenever I see him. He always says something when he sees me, you know little things you say at work when you see someone, and he winks at me sometimes; yesterday I kept finding when coming through a door like every 5 minutes at work and after 6 or 7 times he said that it was such a coincidence that we kept finding each other, and I just laughed and didn't say anything, wasted an opportunity to say something flirtatious So I don't know, maybe he's just being nice or do you think he likes me? And what should I do about it?? Thank you.
laRubiaBonita Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 OMG!!!!!! Hellooooooo~~~ Yes, he definately LIKES YOU!!!! YAY! why not ask him one day, if he has any plans for lunch...... Lunch is good, cause it is casual, there is a set time limit, if you go during work, and it is friendly.
jessiann Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Well I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but anyway we can't go out to lunch because I see him mostly at night.. I don't know of a more subtle way to show him that I'm interested, I don't wanna seem like a little girl either. I don't even know if he does those things because he likes me or if he's just being nice. I'm seeing him again tomorrow night, what should I do?
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Something ambiguous. Where it could be romantic, could be platonic. That's why LRB suggested lunch. But coffee or any other light event would do.
jessiann Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 omg he's gay!! He's lived with his partner for like 3 years! lol! This is the first time something like that has happened to me. At least I never said anything, or asked him to lunch.
aus_half Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 ^Wow, that`s the same thing that`s happened to my sister. She wanted to "convert" him lol
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