rastafari Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 so its highly likeley i will bump into my ex at this show this weekend. i have been doing nc for over 2 months and havent heard a thing from her. last time we bumped into eachother i was sitting on the sidewalk and she stood infront of me and we ended up talking for 15minutes, i couldnt escape. i like talking to her, but it just puts me back to square one. i almost had to start over after that conversation. i have came extreemly far with this whole thing, so i dont want to fall down again. so im not shure if i should ignore her, or what. any advice so i dont fall apart.
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Be honest. Tell her it's too early for long chats. You would like to one day, but don't feel comfortable with it for the moment.
pippen_2k Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Ive had 2 run ins with my ex since we broke up, and both ended up screweing me up a fair bit... Even just seeing her does! It sucks when you wanna go to an event or somethin and theres a chance your ex will be there.... you can run the gauntlet and hope you dont see her, or if you do see her hopefully you can control your emotions. For me, I think it would screw up my day seeing her... ( even now ).. but if your ok with it its cool to go
Author rastafari Posted July 19, 2005 Author Posted July 19, 2005 i dont think i should change my plans and oppertunities to have a great time over a silly little girl. but i dont want her to get me all emotional and feelin weird when i bump into her which could possibly ruin my time. i can allready picture her comming up to me now, i mean i know the girl like the back of my hand. she is going to come up to me and ask how my summer is going and going to give me a hug. and i dont want any of it, but i dont want to be rude.
GOSSMAN Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 snob her, move on, you are better than she is, be strong dude
Zaira Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 If you happen to run into her keep it short and civil, then go and enjoy yourself.
broken guy Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 So many differnt opinions. I know that I am going to bump into the ex soon enough and she will most likely be with the new guy. What am I going to do? Who knows. I know she squirmed when she 1st saw me back after she dumped me, cried, said sorry etc. I want to yell at her. But I have a few situations: IF she tried to talk to me, I will ask why. I am, as she said, not her happiness and just a weight for her so she would have no reason to talk to me. Well, I think it will all depend on the situation. To ignore, snub, say hi, smile, embrace her? I have no idea, just play it by ear.
DogBrain Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 I've already decided that whatever existed between me and the ex, it ended when it ended. Revisiting it with her is the farthest thing from my mind. If I ever run into her (likely) I will at most be polite, but she never gets to "own" even the tiniest piece of me again. db
Author rastafari Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 thanks, i guess i will just have to play it by ear. i guess i cant really "plan" on acting a certian way. but she is in the past, so i guess it doesent matter what the heck i do. i mean if im a jerk off to her who cares, right? i mean she crushed my heart. i should be an ass.
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