gurlfriend issues

[NYC IS GREAT]

How do I fix these?

 

 

1. She's 2 inches taller than me and insists on wearing high heels

2. She needs to lose some weight

3. She wears too much make up

[LostOnes05]

Fix

1) Get over it...she's with you after all, right?

2) Get her in the gym with you. Make it a new year resolution to be healthier together

3) Compliment her more when she's not wearing any makeup

 

My job is done...for now

[Lilyana76]

ok first off if your with someone, you shouldn't say you want to "fix" some issues... but...

 

If you would prefer her to wear no heels, take her shoe shopping and when she tries on a pair that have no heels say things like "oooh you look f*ckin sexy in those baby"...

 

If you would like her to lose some weight, then perhaps motivate her, start asking her to go for walks with you, ask her if she would like to join you at the gym, or suggest some new healthy meals. Don't ever tell her she needs to lose weight... you may get punched.

 

if you don't like her makeup maybe offer to take her to get a makeover at one of the makeup stores in the mall or something. Most of them do it for free then show you what products work best.

 

Be gentle, be kind, and don't make her feel like you are trying to "fix" her.

[NYC IS GREAT]

Suggest solutions. Will these work?

 

 

1. Tell her not to wear high heels because it makes me look tiny

2. Take her to the gym and don't allow high fat foods at the house

3. Throw her make up away

[NYC IS GREAT]

ok first off if your with someone, you shouldn't say you want to "fix" some issues... but...

 

If you would prefer her to wear no heels, take her shoe shopping and when she tries on a pair that have no heels say things like "oooh you look f*ckin sexy in those baby"...

 

If you would like her to lose some weight, then perhaps motivate her, start asking her to go for walks with you, ask her if she would like to join you at the gym, or suggest some new healthy meals. Don't ever tell her she needs to lose weight... you may get punched.

 

if you don't like her makeup maybe offer to take her to get a makeover at one of the makeup stores in the mall or something. Most of them do it for free then show you what products work best.

 

Be gentle, be kind, and don't make her feel like you are trying to "fix" her.

She's this year bought several new pairs of shoes and all have very high heels. She says she wears what she likes.

2. She gets defensive when I tell her to go to the gym. She does yoga but that's easy exercise. She should pump iron.

3. She wears more make up than ever and will not even discuss it.

[Lilyana76]

well.. if you have tried to address these issues and she is unwilling to change, then LOVE HER THE WAY SHE IS!!!

 

I mean you fell for her this way... whats so wrong with it?

 

live with it and love her.. and remember, she chose you. YOU... and be thankful for that.

[NYC IS GREAT]

well.. if you have tried to address these issues and she is unwilling to change, then LOVE HER THE WAY SHE IS!!!

 

I mean you fell for her this way... whats so wrong with it?

 

live with it and love her.. and remember, she chose you. YOU... and be thankful for that.

 

she's 6 foot 2 at least with her new heels

she has gained weight

she's wearing more make up than ever

[Lilyana76]

love her the way she is, shes still the same person you fell in love with... you sound very shallow at this point....

[NYC IS GREAT]

love her the way she is, shes still the same person you fell in love with... you sound very shallow at this point....

 

you aren't listening

 

she didn't always wear high heels when we met, now she wears ridiculously high heels

she's gained some weight from when we met

she wore make up when we met, but she wears more than ever, she even puts on lipstick to go to the mailbox

[LostOnes05]

Suggest solutions. Will these work?

 

 

1. Tell her not to wear high heels because it makes me look tiny

2. Take her to the gym and don't allow high fat foods at the house

3. Throw her make up away

 

Nope, won't work and then you'll be posting in the breakup section. If you do that you'll be seen as immature and insecure.

[NYC IS GREAT]

Nope, won't work and then you'll be posting in the breakup section. If you do that you'll be seen as immature and insecure.

 

then give me real solutions