Homer J Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 New guy here. I have recently met a girl and we have hit it off pretty well I think. She has been separated from her husband for 4 years now, the final hearing is coming up soon. From what I can gather this guy was not a nice person. I have not asked for details, as I didn't think it's my place. I tell her she looks nice, is sexy etc. I am not just saying these things to say them. She is an amazing woman that I am ecstatic to have met. The problem is she is not used to being treated the way a woman should be treated. She has told me this, and she is overwhelmed by my compliments. She has asked for some room with the hearing coming up and I am doing that for her. Besides being patient is there anything I can do or say to help with her fear? I know I'm not out to hurt her, etc. This is frustrating for me because I want her to know that I think she is pretty etc. I'm not afraid to do whatever I need to do. I think she is that special. I don't want to screw things up that's for sure. If anyone has gone thru this themselves on either side I'd be grateful for any insight. I want to help, but I know this is something she will have to work thru on her own. If I can make it easier for her I'm all for it. Thanks!!
Popsicle Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 You just met. Don't worry about this so soon. She hardly knows you.
butterfly84 Posted January 21, 2017 Posted January 21, 2017 I've been in a similar situation and the compliments can be overwhelming. Aside from verbal things - i suggest showing her your care in other ways that are non-verbal and it may go over well. Like bring a flower (a flower or 2 - not 100 roses ) when you guys meet for a date or something like that. That goes a long way to making a girl feel special and doesn't feel overwhelming.
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