CountryGirl1581 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 This is my first time posting. I'll appreciate any feedback I can get. My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year and half now it was so perfect in the beginning but now I'm not sure how he feels about me. Last Christmas him and I had a few drinks together and I had way too much when we tried to go to bed I had alittle accident from drinking too much. Anyways the next day I was in our room cleaning this up realized some had got on the bed skirt but when I tried to pull it off I found some personal items of his. They were pictures of his ex wife and a vibrator which at that point had been divorced from for 12 years. I didn't mind that he had either item but finding them together was devastating. It was very obvious to me what he was doing with them I never touched them and never said a word to him that I had found these things. I got curious one day to see if they were still there and he had moved them this was about a month later. Since then I have found more items in the house of that nature and just feel totally betrayed because they are all things of his past and what makes it worse is he has totally ignored me every since then in the sex department. I've tried to get him to talk to me and tell me if I have done something wrong for him to be so distant but he always has some excuse as to why he's not lovey dovey anymore. I'm not sure if he knows I found his collection and is embarrassed and just doesn't want to talk or what is up...but I'm so tired of being ignored and made to feel unwanted. I've been struggling with this for over a year now I care about his feelings and don't want to hurt him but I need answers... Also I never meant to find any of these things I believe in a persons own personal privacy...but I feel really betrayed 1
Survivor12 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 Ummm....have you considered that there may be something else going on currently? 1
Gaeta Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 You said you've been putting up with this for ONE year?? you mean you discovered those items 6 months into dating and he has stopped touching you a year ago? Hon, no sex = no relationship. This is over, move on. You should have end this a year ago when he stopped having sex with you. This is not the last man on earth to date. 4
BrutalHonesty1980 Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 He obviously isn't too worried about your "feelings" so, don't worry about his! Move on. 2
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