Delicaterose00 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Well guys, Im not getting to much better.........Im still thinking of my ex and his new GF everyday 24/7!!!!!!!!! How do I stop this???????? I got a new job which is awesome because I have been out of work since the end of January...... so hopefully that will help me a little bit.... but deep deep deep down I miss him and love him, but everywhere else I hate him for what he has done and I could never trust him again....... but I cant stop feeling sick... I cant ever ever relax..... I feel like Ill never know what comfort is again.....Im so misserable, I have cried every single day for over 2 months now....... what sucks is there is this guy that is very interested in me but I cant get myself to get to that level. I can have sex, but thats as far as I can get.. I feel like Mike will be a barier forever..... my life sucks right now... I want to eat and cant.... Yesterday I had a few fries.... a bite of cake, and a piece of bread...... seriously... what is wrong with me?? Even if i take anti depresents, that wont help me feeling sick to my stomach and all shakey in the mornings ..... I need more advice from you guys..
butterfly29 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Sweety, I wish I was there to give you a big hug now. I know how you feel. Can't really suggest anything more than to just hang in there. It will get better. Maybe you're just not ready to date again, but you will be, very soon. It might help you to pray to whatever God you believe in or ask your spiritual guide to let it go. Or just keep saying it to yourself "Let it go" to let the pain go away. If it wouldn't go away, hang in to it for a little and then say it again. You see, sometimes pain is nessesary for us, even though it hurts so much, those are the very precious moments of our lives when we learn and grow spiritually. So your pain about this guy may not leave you untill you gain all that's nessesary from it. Think about your relationship with this person, what did you learn from it, what did you learn about yourself. What are your needs. There are so many questions like that, and sometimes answers will come to you during the most painful moments that you experience.
butterfly29 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 thank you. It helps me a lot to give some insight to other people.
Author Delicaterose00 Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 I just cant stop thinking of him and her together... Im going crazy.. its been 2 months and I cant eat or sleep!
harpua2167 Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 I feel bad for you, i really do. My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago and I still cant really stop thinking about her, so i know how it feels. It sounds like you have made some progress though. I would warn against having sex just for the sake of having sex though. I have found that it tends to dilute the experience and leave you feeling worse than you did. that has just been my experience though...hope it is different for you. Good luck
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