lily999 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 I met this guy online and we started with something casual. He seemed very& attractive, and told me he is single. I have met him three times but we don't talk every day. He initiated the texts messages or phone calls most of the time, but he wasn't that eager to meet me. He said he is too busy with work. It may be true, because before we met he said the same thing. One day of last week we were lying on the bed, I was looking into his eyes and he was looking into mine. Then he said :don't look into eyes, you may fall in love. I asked "me fall in love with you?" He replied" I am looking for a long term relationship, not puppy love" and said he never really loved anyone before. Why did he say this? Did he want to tell me that it is hard for him to fall in love or he wants to tell me he is interested? I told him before that I am not looking for a relationship. When we said goodbye last time, he asked me to give him a kiss on his cheek and he kissed me back on mine. But he hasn't contacted me in four days and I didn't text or call him either. I have the feeling that he is interested in sex only...
Author lily999 Posted January 10, 2017 Author Posted January 10, 2017 Correction: I told him before that I am looking for a relationship
avf Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 He's either not too much into you or playin the game of not being needy...either ways he has you thinking about him for last 4 days ...maybe thats what he wants !
Author lily999 Posted January 10, 2017 Author Posted January 10, 2017 He's either not too much into you or playin the game of not being needy...either ways he has you thinking about him for last 4 days ...maybe thats what he wants ! Possible. Before he would ask me if I had thought about him But I guess he wasn't that into me
spiderowl Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 Yes, sounds like it is sex only for him or he would have been in touch with you.
oneinamillion93 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 for me i think he's not that interested. He might like you but didnt think you as a potential long term partner. i wouldn't think he's after sex either, its just sound like he's not that into you
Author lily999 Posted January 10, 2017 Author Posted January 10, 2017 for me i think he's not that interested. He might like you but didnt think you as a potential long term partner. i wouldn't think he's after sex either, its just sound like he's not that into you After our first meeting, he said we had good chemistry. But due to his lack of contact/interest, I already cancelled on him twice. The last time when I wanted to cancel on him, he said if our connection was really that good, maybe it could lead to something more. I thought he just said it to me for more sex. He is very attractive, and I guess he can find sex easily. So after two times with me, he lost the interest totally
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