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There is a girl i am interested in who i have only seen once.

 

Thought about adding her on facebook and starting small talk but thought it would be weird chatting straight up and really fraught with danger.

 

A friend of hers is the fiance of my best friend and i asked my friend to ask his fiance if she knows the status and whether the girl i am interested in is available. If she is, i asked my friend to ask his fiance to see whether the girl may be interested or open to an approach.

 

Do you think this was a good approach to take??

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It's perfectly fine. She can give her your name so she can look you up on FB and she makes the call of reaching to you or not.

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It's perfectly fine. She can give her your name so she can look you up on FB and she makes the call of reaching to you or not.

 

got back from my friend. his fiance isnt sure on her status.

 

what do you think i should do ?

 

should i add her on facebook and wait a while then strike up something ?

how should i approach this ?

 

do not want to stuff this up.

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got back from my friend. his fiance isnt sure on her status.

 

what do you think i should do ?

 

should i add her on facebook and wait a while then strike up something ?

how should i approach this ?

 

do not want to stuff this up.

 

How can she be unsure of a friend status? Is it really a friend of just an acquaintance? Why wouldn't your friend's fiancé play match maker and inform that lady a friend of hers in interested in making contact?

 

Do you accept strangers adding you on FB? I don't.

 

Why would you add her and wait a while? I don't get it.

 

Just message her

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How can she be unsure of a friend status? Is it really a friend of just an acquaintance? Why wouldn't your friend's fiancé play match maker and inform that lady a friend of hers in interested in making contact?

 

Do you accept strangers adding you on FB? I don't.

 

Why would you add her and wait a while? I don't get it.

 

Just message her

 

Got back from my friend's fiance and she had spoken to the girl but unfortunately the girl said she is not looking for a relationship. The fiance did not mention my name. She said she started talking to her about relationships and thats when the girl gave that response.

 

Do you think she should have mentioned me anyway?

 

Dont know what to do now?

Should i wait or move on?

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