lamar_84 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 My ex wrote me this this morning: What's up? How are you doing? Fine I hope! Well, I am just writing to check up on you. So, I hope you are doing just great!!!!!!! " Love ya" WTF. Why do she even care how im doing after the way she did me?? Any inputs??
francis Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 I think this is a very selfish thing to do...to check up on you? she basically wants the low down on whether you are dating again, she's being nosy...did she behave like she 'loved ya' when she broke up with you? i dont know your background break up history...but she's just after some affirmation that you may be still pining after her, that'll give her a boost of self esteem... are you ready to be friends? do you even want to be? i'd throw an email back saying, 'i was suprised to hear from you. i'm very well. please don't email me again as i am not ready to be friends at this stage. please respect my feelings and i will be in touch when i'm ready.' if of course, this fits your situation.
Author lamar_84 Posted July 19, 2005 Author Posted July 19, 2005 She sent me a messege before asking was I dating anyone. She left me with really no explanation. I think it was for the guy she got pregnant from and engaged to right after she broke up with me. I didnt reply to her messege yet. Should I??
francis Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 in a word, no. no disrespect, but it sounds like you could invest your love, time and emotions in someone a whole lot more worthwhile... don't give her permission to play with you and your feelings...walk away now
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