NR8492 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Me and my girlfriend had a complicated ass relationship we would always break up and get back together because we would argue because I would get mad about her being friends with her ex boyfriend she said that they are nothing more than just friends and she was telling the truth but still I would get mad but finally about 2 weeks ago I saw that she was texting him and I went off on her saying some stupid **** and she got mad and said that she never wanna talk to me again and then the next day I felt bad and begged for her back but she just didn't care I told her I wasn't me because I really wasn't but she just didn't care we have been on and off talking about it for a while I send her paragraphs asking for a second chance but she said no matter what she just never wants to be NOTHING more than friends with me finally last night we talked about it and she said she was gone tell me the truth about it all, she said " ok so you being jealous and some what to controlling and starting fights and believing other people made me lose interest but to be honest I have felt like I have been forcing myself to like you and I can't even say I have ever had feelings for you. Yes me and (her ex the one that was her friend) are talking again but I thought I was over him but I'm not, we stoped talking when me and you started talking because I thought you were perfect and I completely forced myself into this relationship because I was hurt. I'm sorry but that the truth" that's exactly what she said to me but the problem is the guy she is with now is a horrible guy he doesn't care about her he is one of those guys that only cares about having hoes and just sex and I know he will do her wrong but she just doesn't know because she likes him. I want her back really bad I love this girl what should I do to have my best chance with her in the future when they break up because I know they will. I already told her that I will be here for her no matter what and maybe we can try again someday but she just keeps saying no she doesn't ever want to try again what should I do?
preraph Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 She doesn't want you back, period. You were too controlling and insecure, and she admitted she just wanted SOMEONE, and so she forced herself to stay with you hoping you were the perfect guy, but you proved over and over you weren't and she realized she didn't even like you anymore and she's gone. Now, you may be 100% right about her ex, but that is NOT your problem. She will see soon enough that that is a fool's mission, but meanwhile, she doesn't like you and you need to just stop contact and move on and find someone else. First, I'd work on your insecurities, though. No one likes to be with a man who thinks he's not good enough to keep her and tries to keep her on a leash and then then blame HER for it. So work on that and then maybe you can get in a better relationship. Good luck.
umirano Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 She wasn't into you to begin with and led you on. Good job getting rid of her. Enjoy your newly gained freedom!
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