Ablackm01 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 There is this girl I liked for the past three years, but for some reason I never tryed to make anything of it. Well two weeks ago she contacted me and we hung out and a week are two later we hung out again. Her friend which is a good friend of mines sister told me that she think she should date me and her parents like me and all her friends do to. This is all coming from one girl which is my friends sister. She gives hints like making sure I know she is a good girl, saying she is " so glad I came and seen her" , also we was messing around and our hand accidentally touch and seem like we held hands for a split second. After the day I found out she liked me and the hand touch thing I feel like she has went cold on me. All I want is to hang out and get comfortable like friends but not friend zone for now what do y'all think why has she went cold on me.
smackie9 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Anyone who really likes someone usually goes shy. This is when you need to step up and be a man....make your move, be confident and forward....stop being afraid or she WiLL lose interest. Girls expect to guy to take the lead to be the one to do the first of everything like holding hands, asking her out, kissing etc. Ya gotta STOP with this "get comfortable" excuse.....it doesn't work. Man up.
kendahke Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 My best advice to you is to remove extraneous people from out of your dating business. The less others know, the less they can interfere. If you like this girl, then go up to her and tell her you want to hang out. She's not going to read your mind. And for God's sake, do not use this friend as your go-between here--she doesn't have any business on any committee regarding your involvement with this girl. It looks weak when you allow people who have no business in your business to be directing traffic.
Author Ablackm01 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Posted January 6, 2017 Thanks and I never use her friend her friend came to me and you are right I need to man up. Last time I was like this was back in the ole school days lol I'm usually pretty damn cofident and taking charge
preraph Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 You're never going to get anywhere waiting for things to "get comfortable," because women aren't attracted to fear. Kiss her and do it without hesitation, or take a step back and realize you're not ready to date yet, one of the two. And ask her on a real date, not a hang-out. You pick her up and escort her and pay.
Author Ablackm01 Posted January 6, 2017 Author Posted January 6, 2017 Haha I just did that she said she had church but she has a church thing but invited me to that
spiderowl Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 In what way exactly did she 'go cold' on you?
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