guild11 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Hey guys, it's been almost a month since we broke up, She is 27 I'm 26 and we were together almost 2 years. We had sex few times since the break but last time she called I declined and we didn't talk since then. After the break up I started hanging with my buddies and noticed the younger sister of my friend, she is 19 We started texting almost everyday and eventually hanged together. After our third meeting with stayed in the car and we talked for hours, I realized that I have much more in common with her than with my ex. At some point as she was talking I just kissed her, Later she said she had crush on me and she is aware that she is a rebound. I'll be honest, I still have feelings for my ex, but as I compare them I came to conclusion that I have much more in common with the new girl. Does it still considered a rebound ? Should I let her go too? 1
Satu Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Yes, this is a typical rebound. From my journal "Never begin a new relationship until you've fully moved on from the one before. Also never begin a new relationship with someone who hasn't fully moved on from their one before. By 'moved on,' I mean any necessary grieving done, not preoccupied with the ex, enjoying life, feeling good about yourself, and optimistic about the future. The best way to move on is to decide to be single for a while; not dating, not hooking up, no fwb. 'Get back on the horse' is sound advice, but its best to let the cuts and bruises heal before you do." Take care.
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