risjurad Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Me: Outdoors eh? What was your last such activity? Her (10 hrs later): dirt bike riding in [city] Me (13 hrs after that): have you been doing that a long time? Is it similar to riding a bike regularly? 3 days later and no word. World like to know if it was something i said.
SunnyWeather Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Me: Outdoors eh? What was your last such activity? Her (10 hrs later): dirt bike riding in [city] Me (13 hrs after that): have you been doing that a long time? Is it similar to riding a bike regularly? 3 days later and no word. World like to know if it was something i said. you didn't do anything wrong, the conversation is just not that interesting and kind of tedious having to answer those questions 2
Erik30 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 You didn't do anything wrong. This girl probably just isn't interested. She took hours to reply and didn't ask you anything in return. Now she's been ignoring your second question for days.... move on to the next one
chphan Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 Me: Outdoors eh? What was your last such activity? Her (10 hrs later): dirt bike riding in [city] Me (13 hrs after that): have you been doing that a long time? Is it similar to riding a bike regularly? 3 days later and no word. World like to know if it was something i said. Are you new to online or something? This is common with online and what's wrong with online. Anything you get one sentence or one word conversations going and it takes hours to get replies back it usually means it's not going to go anywhere and the ghost. This is what you call not really interested but I will reply just to see what's up before I permanently ghost. Well I guess it's better than getting no replies back. lol 1
OnlyHonesty Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 You didn't do anything wrong, but you didn't do anything right either. I hadn't yawned for three days until reading that little conversation snippet...
dumbass2 Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 She's not interested. Some people are bored easily and if you're competing with other guys for her attention then that conversation is not going to do it. Too bland.
IfonlyIknew Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 That kind of conversation is more for in person, she might not be a texter.
Author risjurad Posted January 6, 2017 Author Posted January 6, 2017 I would like to eliminate as many variables as possible when dating (OLD or in person). So for me, this whole "being yourself" thing work until i can get a few more messages in to ask her out
Author risjurad Posted January 7, 2017 Author Posted January 7, 2017 you didn't do anything wrong, the conversation is just not that interesting and kind of tedious having to answer those questions So how should conversations be recorded on OLD?
Grey40 Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 (edited) Girls get an INSANE amount of messages on these apps, sometimes they just forget to answer back or don't see it. If a girl doesn't answer back in a day or so, I just send something else and pretend the conversation is restarting. Just message her again and ask a different question, if no response then delete and move on. Also, the 2-3 word replies and no questions asked to you is very low interest and not worth the time. Trust me on this. There's also women on there who really aren't single or available, keep that in mind. They use the app when they're bored and just want to "like" cute guys or are in a relationship and are just window shopping to see what else is out there. I know it's tough as a guy because we don't get many replies or messages, but that's why its super important to focus on the girls who actually ARE interested. And if they are, they will respond to what you say, and will ask you questions as well to keep the conversation moving. If they don't, they are either not interested or extremely boring people. I once had a girl who gave really short boring replies, and I decided to just ask her out instead of BS'ing. She actually agreed and we went on a date, and she was literally like talking to a wooden stick. So just avoid that altogther and save yourself time. Edited January 7, 2017 by Grey40
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