Andyroy1986 Posted January 5, 2017 Posted January 5, 2017 Ive been dating a gal from Oz for a year il keep the story short she had to move back as her visa ended I struggle with insecurities an commitment issues, and wasn't ready to leave it broke her heart she left We kept some contact but as time passed it faded Some months later we spoke an she was dating I was upset but again we spoke and I left her be she said she still loves me and wanted to remain friends some time passed and she contacted me again saying the relationship she entered was a bad choice and she was trying to fill the void I left and deal with the hurt We started talking building trust again and building a relationship I was due to go there I guess I got my "issues" and worries again as I asked her to come her instead she agreed but as the time grew Nearer I put it off ive no idea why I was nervous an worried Anyways she started to struggle become insecure an worried about the stability of us and the same as before happening we bikkered for a few weeks and then she said she's not well enough mentally to come so I have to go there again we bikkered I was being stubborn as I was afraid then I went silent for a week I messaged her one week later to read a reply of my therapist has told me to cut U off and she did blocked me on everything I tried to reach out I sent some flowers and spoke to her sis nothing then a couple of days later she unblocked me to tell me she has met someone who's everything im not it broke my heart I saw on fb it's her 43 year old co worker and only a week or so before she was saying how much she loves me and even if we didn't work she couldn't comtemplate another relationship as she's not mentally ready im struggling so bad to make sense of all this and what to do can anyone please help ive been so Ill lately due to it and even recieved death threats from him please help
BlkVelvet Posted January 6, 2017 Posted January 6, 2017 You've received "death threats from him"? Huh? 1
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