[Is she playing mind games??] [UPDATE: Is this a sign of BPD??]

[Charlie2006]

Me: ok

 

Her: You're lying about it being about Heidi. If you were "focusing on Heidi" you still wouldn't have Facebook. lol that's the stupidest **** I've ever heard

 

Me: I'm definitely focusing on Heidi. I wish I had her all the time, but I don't. I got out of the habit of being on Facebook, and as far as the hunting goes. Until I had booked up totally, yes I was using Facebook as a source of advertising. I'm now on there because I just want to be, and like I said before I have set a limit for myself on how much I use it. You keep making this about me playing games with you, and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. When I changed our pic after a couple weeks of you leaving I put me and shay up there. And last night I changed it to me and Heidi. I even went as far as deleting my post about deactivating my Facebook for a bit. I don't want to cause stress on you, I wasn't done with us, I still care about you and I have missed you. Just because I reactivate my page does not make me a bad person or an immature one. I never ever cheated on you leah. Physically or emotionally. I may of not been the best to you, but I never did that. I am clean now, and have changed my attitude. I feel good about myself. It sucks you see me as "bad" but I'm not that person, and never would fall back into that person. I love being this way. I am always here for you no matter what. I love you leah

 

 

Her: Yes, it does make you immature

 

Her: And you're not "clean" lol regardless of what you're taking the med for

 

Me: I haven't taken a single pill

 

Her: Lol what in 12 hours?

 

Me: No, in 5 days

 

Her: No wonder you and Clenon were friends all makes sense now. Both very immature

 

Me: I'm glad you have closure leah

 

Her: You make it quite easy

 

Me: Ok

 

Her: So for that, I'll tell you thanks

 

Me: Ok leah, please I am hurt ok. That hurts me worse

 

Her: And please respect the fact I DO NOT want to see you. If you're going to go out, I'll ask if you are out before I go because I do not care to run into you or your girl of that week. I'm not going to text you just to text you so if I do text you that is why.

 

Me: ok I understand

 

Her:

 

Me: I am truly sorry. Always know that

 

Her: Mhmm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Someone PLEASE help

[carhill]

Unfortunately, as long as you keep engaging, this will continue until one or the other is dead. Hopefully that grim ending is a long ways off so up to you what you want to do between now and then.

[Charlie2006]

Unfortunately, as long as you keep engaging, this will continue until one or the other is dead. Hopefully that grim ending is a long ways off so up to you what you want to do between now and then.

 

I know... I'm very hurt. She thinks I'm the worse person on the planet.. all because I activated my Facebook

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[elaine567]

Her: And please respect the fact I DO NOT want to see you. If you're going to go out, I'll ask if you are out before I go because I do not care to run into you or your girl of that week.

 

She has made her feelings pretty plain here.

YOU have to just leave her alone.

[Charlie2006]

She has made her feelings pretty plain here.

YOU have to just leave her alone.

 

She was the one messaging me??

[Charlie2006]

Freakishly sounds a lot like my ex.... wow.

 

Go hard NC for a while and see what happens imo.

 

She called me yesterday evening, and said hey what are you up to? I said nothing what's up, and she said nothing. Then she said I just wanted to call and check on you. I'm not the cold hearted bitch you think I am. I said yes I'm over it. She said I'm glad you are over it, and I said I'm not over you, but I'm over being mad at you. She said ok well I'm glad. Then said well I'm not going to hold you up so I'll let you go. I said ok. She said bye. Is this push pull or what??

[ExpatInItaly]

She called me yesterday evening, and said hey what are you up to? I said nothing what's up, and she said nothing. Then she said I just wanted to call and check on you. I'm not the cold hearted bitch you think I am. I said yes I'm over it. She said I'm glad you are over it, and I said I'm not over you, but I'm over being mad at you. She said ok well I'm glad. Then said well I'm not going to hold you up so I'll let you go. I said ok. She said bye. Is this push pull or what??

 

Yes, but it doesn't matter. What does confirming that it's push-pull gain you?

 

You really need to stop responding to her.

 

I learned the hard way that it doesn't get better, and you will be tossed aside completely when she attaches herself to a new guy.

 

Unless you want more pain, stop participating in it.

[Stercrazy]

Why haven't you blocked her?