Pinhead Larry Posted January 4, 2017 Posted January 4, 2017 Im going on 21 and I probably won't get a girl until after college. So I'll be 22 when I get done and by that time girls are coming around dine with having their fun and now want a guy with a career and I don't feel like being that guy they come to after theyve finished having sex with 10 or how many guys in the past. I'm on a fast track to the 40 year old virgin but I've accepted that. I know that nobody is required to date or I don't think I girls should be lined up to date me because they shouldn't and thats the truth I'm not going to lie to anyone not even on this site. With that being said I'm pretty much that type of guy that girls only talk to after they get done having as much fun and sex as possible in the college years to settle down and Im not going to be that guy. Most girls won't even return a text, let alone talk or date so why bother anymore? I feel like at this point I'm stuck being that rebound guy after they screwed a bunch of other guys and have a lot of other baggage. I'm sure this is true with girls as well but I cannot talk from a female perspective because I'm not a girl. I'm a guy. So what should I do? Also I will note that not every girl is like this so it's really hard go judge a girls intention which makes everything harder.
winny Posted January 4, 2017 Posted January 4, 2017 Ha ha ha... is this even real? A 20 year old complaining about being too old to date...!!! I should probably die then :lmao: 3
Easton88 Posted January 4, 2017 Posted January 4, 2017 Relax, you are not even in your prime as a male yet. You have PLENTY time to date. Seriously many women in their early 20's looking for something serious are not even ready for it. Besides, would you really want a woman that looks for a guy with a career instead of a great guy? Sure if you were making a mess of your life and were not studying/working or anything else that would be a criteria to flake on you. But your still studying and still entering the world. Don't panic, you will be fine.
Author Pinhead Larry Posted January 4, 2017 Author Posted January 4, 2017 Im 20 and I probably worder it all wrong but I really meant it for when you're around the age of 25-32
BaileyB Posted January 4, 2017 Posted January 4, 2017 What you have described is pretty much a self-fulfilling prophecy.
smackie9 Posted January 4, 2017 Posted January 4, 2017 You have a misconception of what women are really about. Sure some college girls are into just hooking up, but there are plenty who don't, so stop putting them into one category. Stop blaming others for your lack of experience. If you can be more positive, and look at other places to seek out a social life where you meet girls, you will have success. If you go around with your misogynistic attitude, you will continue to repel any potential GF. 1
longjohn Posted January 5, 2017 Posted January 5, 2017 I'm sorry but wtf did I just read? Are you serious? You can't be serious and if you are please tell us you where drunk and it was 2AM when you wrote this. I'm sorry you can't get a date but believe me it'll happen. It isn't rocket science. Yes "girls" women in college like to "hook up" just like many men do. I wouldn't be worried about the number of partners the lady has had I'd be more worried about the type of person she is. Don't be too quick to judge anyone. I'll be honest with you I hit my 30's still single but dated a few ladies over the years. Some older than I, some younger the majority of them around my age. The one thing I got from this over the years is ladies like us want to be treated as a person no bs and no lies just be yourself. Just find a nice girl, go talk to her and see if you've anything in common if so ask her out. The worst she can say is no.. you either move along or try again it isn't the end of the world. 1
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