SUNSHINE143 Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Preach on sister. I fully agree with your feelings and I believe you can know after only 2 months. A lot of the time though, we fantasize and build something up that was never there. Be careful not to do that. I hope you and your boyfriend are happy-for a long time. Always trust your heart. Never listen to other people, and look at ALL the signs, not just the ones you like! Love is all layed out when it's real. I know that without a doubt in my mind. Never think though that it's not A LOT of hard work because it is. Good luck in love.
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 Thanx so much Sunshine! Good luck with yourself too!
Outcast Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 People can debate this until forever, but those who have no faith in "knowing he/she's the one" have never been in-love. That's the bottom line!!!!! Well actually, they're more likely people who were POSITIVE that they had found THE ONE two or three times and then found out it wasn't THE ONE and then they got suspicious of that whole process.
SUNSHINE143 Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Outcast, Have you been hurt? Look back at the past relationship that you or whoever were SURE they were in love. Now, where there any signs AT ALL that you chose to ignore? 10 times out of 9 there are. We love to be in-love and sometimes we over-look the bad and build up the good. Do you have children? If so you know how much they clarify things-especially love!! Don't think I am trying to argue with your opinions or down play whatever happened in your past, I'm just saying there are signs that we all over-look because we want things to fit.
Outcast Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Has nothing to do with being hurt. Do you honestly believe that everybody who divorced didn't think they had found 'THE ONE' to marry when they were getting married? Like with anything else, it's not possible to tell somebody who's positive they are positive that they could be mistaken. I hope your 'ONE' really is 'THE ONE'.
SUNSHINE143 Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 People jump into marriages too quickly. It happens all the time. Look at the stars. But truth be told you CAN'T tell someone who knows their in love that it's not right. I don't believe that just because people divorce they weren't right for each other, some people don't want to work things out. Divorce is too easy these days and people treat it as if it were just breaking up. No one should be so synical about love. It's not easy, it takes work. a lot of people believe that when you fall in-love you stay that way.....you DON'T. Love isn't even the most important thing. I think respect is. If you respect your partner then ever when you fight like dogs, you still don't disrespect them. Relationships are give and take and if you think your in-love, always look at how much you both give. If it's not equal, it probably won't work. My "one" is the one, but only time will tell if we last
lvgrly Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by SUNSHINE143 My "one" is the one, but only time will tell if we last I was just thinking that. And as far as rules being set to know if they are the one well thats a load of crap. Rules, guidelines, blah blah blah..If everyone went by rules then love or relationships as a whole would be boring, and built on someone elses foundation. I think you know when you know. You cant take a quiz and determin that you love someone because you have "signs" that its love..Who has the right to tell you that? Um, no one.. Just listen to your gut and your heart. Not rules or someones guide to telling if hes the one.. Love happens in all sorts of ways not just a set crap that you have to follow. People should just start thinking for themselfs in my opinion.
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by lvgrly And as far as rules being set to know if they are the one well thats a load of crap. Rules, guidelines, blah blah blah..If everyone went by rules then love or relationships as a whole would be boring, and built on someone elses foundation. People should just start thinking for themselfs in my opinion. "Other peoples' wisdom and experience blah blah blah.... no-one can teach me anything I know it all blah blah blah"
Author IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo "Other peoples' wisdom and experience blah blah blah.... no-one can teach me anything I know it all blah blah blah" :lmao:
Outcast Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Actually, another thread is dealing with many related issues http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t67274/
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