Mysterious81 Posted January 3, 2017 Posted January 3, 2017 I am needing help transitioning back to who i used to be well all started off when we meet back in 2012 everything was going well until one day I was just scrolling through FB, and what do i see that she is married so I confront her about and she eventually confesses to being married but here's the shocker her husband girlfriend lived in the same house as them I know what a messed up( red flags), but I was the crazy one who stuck it through after she constantly lie after lie , well will fast forward to present day well we have a 2 year old daughter and i am not sure how to handle her having my daughter around other guys trying to replace me.
PegNosePete Posted January 3, 2017 Posted January 3, 2017 Well, there's a lot of different issues you raise there, all in one sentence! Let's go through them one by one. I am needing help transitioning back to who i used to be What do you mean by this? Nobody in this world can transition back to who they used to be. You have a child now. Life will never be the same. If you miss specific aspects of your life then you may be able to re-create them for example being confident, happy, etc. one day I was just scrolling through FB, and what do i see that she is married so I confront her about and she eventually confesses to being married but here's the shocker her husband girlfriend lived in the same house as them So she's technically married but separated? And her husband already has a new partner? Sure, it's pretty bad that she lied to you but at least she's not cheating right? The marriage at this point is just a piece of paper? i am not sure how to handle her having my daughter around other guys trying to replace me. She should not be having your daughter around other guys while she is in the process of trying to replace you. She should introduce your daughter to her new partner once the relationship has become serious. If she introduces guys too soon then you should bring that up with her. But you have to accept that she can do as she damn well pleases, if you're not in a relationship any more then she doesn't have to answer to you!
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