should i have not told her this

[kriscase]

girl came over and we watched a movie,had pizza and hooked up

 

i really didnt talk much at all. i was nervous to be honest she was way out of my league

 

anyway the sex was fine and all that

 

about amonth later i contacted her again about hanging out and she said she really wasnt wanting to do the hook up thing

 

we started talking and i gained interest in her because we had a lot of things in common

 

when i asked about a date she seemed on teh fence, she mentioned that i had hardly talked at all when she came over and she really didnt want to go ona date with me if i wasnt gonna talk at all cuz itd be awkward

 

i told her i did have a good time and just didnt talk because i was a bit nervous

 

she asked why

 

i said i just wanst sure what the whole intention of you coming over was

 

i told her since we had talked more and had stuff in common i would be way more talkative

 

anyway should i have kept all that to myself?

[stillafool]

No you did fine. Ask her out again. I mean, she still had sex with you even though you didn't talk to her. You must be hot. She probably didn't think you were very interested because of the lack of conversation. If you find the conversation lacking start asking her questions about herself. People love to talk about themselves.