palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Matched with a girl on okCupid yesterday. She started texting me and it was back-and-forth for hours all afternoon and evening. She is coming on way too strong in my opinion, just wouldn't stop messaging. Already said she wants to cook for me, for example. She comes off as desperate but not sure why that would be, she is reasonably attractive. I just wonder if this is more along the lines of a hookup in her mind? Haven't been in that situation before. Not sure what to expect when I see her. Tomorrow I am going to her place to watch some shows.
spiderowl Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 She is probably just excited about meeting a new guy and doesn't realise how she is coming off. She is offering to cook which is sweet but a bit much at first. She sounds quite naive. I would give her a chance and see how things go. It is always best to meet out of your home at first until you know more about the person. Maybe it would be best to change that part of the meeting. As for whether she is looking for a hook-up, why assume that? It sounds like she really likes you and is looking to relate firstly. 1
fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Some girls are really quick in relationship, u can either tell her to slow down and take it slow or just catch up her pace and enjoy the moment of her being so good to you
Kempeitai Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Matched with a girl on okCupid yesterday. She started texting me and it was back-and-forth for hours all afternoon and evening. She is coming on way too strong in my opinion, just wouldn't stop messaging. Already said she wants to cook for me, for example. She comes off as desperate but not sure why that would be, she is reasonably attractive. I just wonder if this is more along the lines of a hookup in her mind? Haven't been in that situation before. Not sure what to expect when I see her. Tomorrow I am going to her place to watch some shows. Lol going to her place to watch shows for a first date. Bring protection OP. 1
Author palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Lol going to her place to watch shows for a first date. Bring protection OP. That's what I was thinking. I'm open to whatever happens. For dating it just seems weird going so fast, like having all these expectations built up before even meeting.
Kempeitai Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 That's what I was thinking. I'm open to whatever happens. For dating it just seems weird going so fast, like having all these expectations built up before even meeting. You ok with dating an easy girl? If so then go ahead. I wouldnt even go to a girls house or invite her to mine on a 1st date if I was seriously looking for a gf/wife. Would suggest something different for a 1st date. Dont want to know or think about my girl being easy.
Author palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 I'll just have to meet her in person and see. Yeah I doubt I could see it being real serious. She might be totally different in person.
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 That's what I was thinking. I'm open to whatever happens. For dating it just seems weird going so fast, like having all these expectations built up before even meeting. I hope I meet a guy who is NOT open to whatever happens Do guys have anything called "boundaries"
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 You ok with dating an easy girl? If so then go ahead. I wouldnt even go to a girls house or invite her to mine on a 1st date if I was seriously looking for a gf/wife. Would suggest something different for a 1st date. Dont want to know or think about my girl being easy. Well he seems like an easy guy to me He is ready to do whatever with her at her home on the first date... Perfect match I would say... ha ha ha
Author palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Haha, yeah she is pursuing me and I am letting her. I'm not exactly in a position to be turning anything down. She is 19 so not expecting anything too serious.
Kempeitai Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Well he seems like an easy guy to me He is ready to do whatever with her at her home on the first date... Perfect match I would say... ha ha ha Most red blooded men are easy. Ask most guys if they want to shack up tonight they will be happy and say yes. Ask most women if they want to shack up tonight they will be insulted and want to slap you. 1
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Haha, yeah she is pursuing me and I am letting her. I'm not exactly in a position to be turning anything down. She is 19 so not expecting anything too serious. Ha ha ha appreciate your honesty...
Author palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Most red blooded men are easy. Ask most guys if they want to shack up tonight they will be happy and say yes. Ask most women if they want to shack up tonight they will be insulted and want to slap you. Truth here.
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Most red blooded men are easy. Ask most guys if they want to shack up tonight they will be happy and say yes. Ask most women if they want to shack up tonight they will be insulted and want to slap you. Glad you used the word most. There is a very small and dwindling population but still some guys are there who can turn down an offer for casual sex... 1
Author palmsand Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Glad you used the word most. There is a very small and dwindling population but still some guys are there who can turn down an offer for casual sex... True. Of course if it meant cheating or otherwise hurting others that would be a different story. I would like to think that most men are above that.
Kempeitai Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Glad you used the word most. There is a very small and dwindling population but still some guys are there who can turn down an offer for casual sex... All guys could turn it down. I'd turn down casual sex from an overweight woman or a woman missing teeth etc. But why would guys turn down casual sex from a willing consenting average to attractive woman?
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 All guys could turn it down. I'd turn down casual sex from an overweight woman or a woman missing teeth etc. But why would guys turn down casual sex from a willing consenting average to attractive woman? Because some guys are in control of their senses and live a life that is more spiritual and sex is very low in the list of things they want in their lives. And some guys just don't believe in casual sex or casual anything - the very high value - not so "easy" guys.
Kempeitai Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Because some guys are in control of their senses and live a life that is more spiritual and sex is very low in the list of things they want in their lives. And some guys just don't believe in casual sex or casual anything - the very high value - not so "easy" guys. Most normal functioning men are in control of their senses. Even religious men are down for casual shagging. Good luck finding this mythical unicorn lol
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