vampirebrat Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Some context: I posted a few weeks back about a guy I like who seems to like me back. Well things have kinda cooled off a little. It's probably due to the usual Christmas rigmarole. My problem is that I just suck at striking a balance. I'm either full on or total Ice Queen. I won't text for days, but then when I do we'll talk for ages. Or until I say something stupid that leaves him speechless. Which is what I did on 21/12. So I retreated until Christmas, whereupon in a moment of bravery I sent a rather flirty message. Possibly alcohol-fuelled. I don't recall. He sent like a paragraph back and I was like 'oh ****, i didn't actually plan for a conversation.' Like all hands to the banter stations! So I gently ribbed him for his Christmas work attire. He found it hilarious. All was going well. Until a few hours later, I decided to call him 'cute'. God knows what possessed me, I never do **** like that. No response for a while. So I said 'that's probably embarrassing, sorry.' To which he replied 'it's cool, was just walking to mate's sorry. :L'. I have no ****ing clue what :L means. He uses it all the time and I just don't get it. Anyway, I have no idea where I stand. He probably thinks I'm a total twat, and I feel really embarassed. Should I just back off completely?
Recommended Posts