Eliorana Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hi everyone. I've realized that i do have some trust issues when it comes to relationships. It feels like every girl that gets in contact with my boyfriend and exchange of likes on pictures is a threat. I don't know why, i just get anxious and very insecure. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, he truly is a good guy. But i can't help but feel uneasy when other girls comes into the picture. I really do not want to feel like this, a bad black heavy weight risen on my chest whenever he likes someones picture or when a random girl writes to him and he replies. Please, can someone give me some advice on how i should work with myself on this matter? Anyone with similar problems, how do you cope with this?
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Unfriend each other on FB and such. I was never friends on FB with men I dated. I have a friend who renders herself sick by monitoring everything her BF does on FB. She is miserable each time he likes something and miserable each time he doesn't like something. It's ridiculous. 1
kendahke Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hi everyone. I've realized that i do have some trust issues when it comes to relationships. It feels like every girl that gets in contact with my boyfriend and exchange of likes on pictures is a threat. I don't know why, i just get anxious and very insecure. I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, he truly is a good guy. But i can't help but feel uneasy when other girls comes into the picture. I really do not want to feel like this, a bad black heavy weight risen on my chest whenever he likes someones picture or when a random girl writes to him and he replies. Please, can someone give me some advice on how i should work with myself on this matter? Anyone with similar problems, how do you cope with this? Did your insecurities arise from a past relationship where a guy cheated on you? You don't sound as if you're ready to be in a relationship with anyone. Until such a time where his innocent social media activities don't set your hair on fire, you should think about staying off of it or deleting his accounts so you're not tempted to flay yourself alive over what some random girl says or what he says to a random chick. 1
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