ElizabethIII Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 I must have misread a Tinder profile. I was talking to this nice guy for a few days. He finally said to me what he did for NYE and he said he and his partner went to see friends. Partner? He wrote a really long profile and at the beginning it said he was looking for a love. Ok fine. I didnt read to the end and at the end it says he is polyamorous and that means he has more than one relationship....right. Just unmatch? Looks like he has a girlfriend and wants to build up a harem.
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Just tell him you missed the part in his profile where he said he was in a poly relationship and wish him luck in his research. Just treat people the way you'd like to be treated. 3
kendahke Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 He wrote a really long profile and at the beginning it said he was looking for a love. Ok fine. I didnt read to the end and at the end it says he is polyamorous Wow, one would think he's found love already if he's got a partner sticking with him while he's looking for side pieces. That's some industrial strength love right there. That's too messy for me. 1
Author ElizabethIII Posted January 1, 2017 Author Posted January 1, 2017 (edited) Wow, one would think he's found love already if he's got a partner sticking with him while he's looking for side pieces. That's some industrial strength love right there. That's too messy for me. Yes me too. His profile said looking for love so I thought good, not looking for FWB, NSA but then I think he added a bit later as I would have seen that. He has multi relationships with full disclosure and consent. He wrote about his partner to me and referred to them as we. So they are a couple and everyone else is an extra I guess. Hell no! Maybe his partner also sleeps with other men. Yuck. A recipe for STDs. Edited January 1, 2017 by ElizabethIII
Ruby Slippers Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 If you overlooked the part about him being poly, he's totally in the clear. If he added that later, it seems a little sneaky. But how do you know if you missed it or just overlooked it? I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, and just let him know you saw that and aren't interested. By the way, I've noticed this is a growing trend on mainstream dating sites - men stating openly on their profile that they're in a relationship but looking for additional partners, often claiming to have the woman's agreement. I suppose it's an improvement over lying about relationship status and cruising for affairs. I just tell them I'm not interested, and then they go away.
Author ElizabethIII Posted January 1, 2017 Author Posted January 1, 2017 I dont know if I overlooked it or if it was added later. i told him I wasnt up for multi relationships and he said happy to make new friends.
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