iReapZz Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hello everyone and Happy New Year. Today my new girlfriend told her parents about me (we are together 4 days now) and they told her that they don't want her to be in a relationship. They won't let her get out with me, for example today we would go out together but now we won't, and I'm mad af about it. I'm 17 and she is 15. So what am I supposed to do now? How do I deal with this situation? Thanks in advance
Kempeitai Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hello everyone and Happy New Year. Today my new girlfriend told her parents about me (we are together 4 days now) and they told her that they don't want her to be in a relationship. They won't let her get out with me, for example today we would go out together but now we won't, and I'm mad af about it. I'm 17 and she is 15. So what am I supposed to do now? How do I deal with this situation? Thanks in advance Bruh, You are 17. TF you doing trying to be in a relationship?!? I wouldn't worry about a GF until you turn 25. Enjoy your youth and freedom.
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Respect her parents wish and do not date her. She is too young to be dating anyway. Find yourself a lady your age to date. There is a whole world between being 15 and being 17. She's just a kid 3
smackie9 Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 When you get to their age, you wouldn't want some 17 year old pawing and possibly banging your 15 year old daughter either. They feel she isn't mature enough to have a "relationship", and have proper judgement when it comes to sexual contact.....find a girl your own age. It sucks ya for sure I get it, but adults make the rules. 3
kendahke Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hello everyone and Happy New Year. Today my new girlfriend told her parents about me (we are together 4 days now) and they told her that they don't want her to be in a relationship. They won't let her get out with me, for example today we would go out together but now we won't, and I'm mad af about it. I'm 17 and she is 15. So what am I supposed to do now? How do I deal with this situation? Thanks in advance Let this go. You deal with it by dealing with the fact that she's a minor, her parents can and will exert their authority with her. Not much else you can do about it. Lots of parents let their 15 year olds date--and a whole lot more do not let their 15 year olds date--totally their call and no one else's. 2
LargoLagg Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Tell this girl that you should respect her parents' wishes. Tell her that you'd like to take her out every once in a while, but that you'll be taking other girls out too. Tell her it is the mature thing to do. The first thing she's going to do is go home and cry to her mother/father/both about how they've ruined her life. They're going to like you immediately. When you come to pick her up, dress nicely, ask what time they want her home and don't disappoint. They'll come around, believe me. It's just going to take some time, and frankly, she's only 15. She shouldn't have a 17 year old boyfriend. It won't be long before the two-year age difference nearly disappears, but right now, there's a lot of room between a 9th grader and a junior or a senior, whichever you happen to be.
DarrenB Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Yeah, I highly recommend you let this one go... if you continue to pursue or attempt to work things out in a manner-able way, you'll be at a loss in the end regardless.
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Tell this girl that you should respect her parents' wishes. Tell her that you'd like to take her out every once in a while, but that you'll be taking other girls out too. Tell her it is the mature thing to do. The first thing she's going to do is go home and cry to her mother/father/both about how they've ruined her life. They're going to like you immediately. When you come to pick her up, dress nicely, ask what time they want her home and don't disappoint. They'll come around, believe me. It's just going to take some time, and frankly, she's only 15. She shouldn't have a 17 year old boyfriend. It won't be long before the two-year age difference nearly disappears, but right now, there's a lot of room between a 9th grader and a junior or a senior, whichever you happen to be. There is no picking her up once in a while. Her parents said NO to her dating. Then telling a young girl you will take her out and date other girls too is the best way to have her parents against you and do everything to destroy your image in front of her. 2
basil67 Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 When I was 15, my parents also wouldn't let me date a boy your age. He phoned my parents (without my knowing) and had a talk with them to let him know he was a good guy. My parents changed their minds. If you're a clean cut kind of guy with good grades and work ethic, talk to her folks. 1
LargoLagg Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 There is no picking her up once in a while. Her parents said NO to her dating. Then telling a young girl you will take her out and date other girls too is the best way to have her parents against you and do everything to destroy your image in front of her.Sorry, I missed that. Quite right. They said no, so don't. It will just end in sorrow and misery for somebody, maybe everybody. You might visit to assure them you'll respect their wishes, and to ask them at what age they would be willing to let you date her. Time moves pretty quickly at your age.
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