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So you're going out on your first date with someone you met at a bar.

 

What does each one of these types of dates mean?

 

1. Weekday evening, drinks (or coffee) only?

 

2. Weekday evening, dinner?

 

3. Weekend evening drinks (or coffee) only?

 

4. Weekend evening dinner?

 

5. Friday happy hour?

 

6. Saturday lunch?

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So you're going out on your first date with someone you met at a bar.

 

What does each one of these types of dates mean?

 

1. Weekday evening, drinks (or coffee) only?

 

2. Weekday evening, dinner?

 

3. Weekend evening drinks (or coffee) only?

 

4. Weekend evening dinner?

 

5. Friday happy hour?

 

6. Saturday lunch?

 

There are only two types of first dates OP.

 

Late night bar/clubbing (10pm-2am) = trying to get laid and possibly getting to know you

 

Everything else = getting to know you and possibly trying to get laid

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I'll play.

 

1. Weekday evening, drinks (or coffee) only?

I don't drink coffee in the evenings (and coffee is the most dull type of date for me) but would go for a quick drink (just an hour or so) if I didn't know him at all to talk and start getting to know one another.

 

2. Weekday evening, dinner?

Too much for date #1

 

3. Weekend evening drinks (or coffee) only?

OK if I have no plans but it could be a while before I am free.

See above about the coffee idea.

 

4. Weekend evening dinner?

Way too much for date #1

 

5. Friday happy hour?

I'd rather do that once I know him in case one more drink became one too many for me.

 

6. Saturday lunch?

Good for date #2.

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I used to take a woman out for a nice dinner on a weekend evening and then the getting laid part comes around date 3 and I would continue to date her.

 

You guys seem to have taken the romance out of it and replaced it with cynicism.

 

What gives?

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I'll play.

 

1. Weekday evening, drinks (or coffee) only?

I don't drink coffee in the evenings (and coffee is the most dull type of date for me) but would go for a quick drink (just an hour or so) if I didn't know him at all to talk and start getting to know one another.

 

2. Weekday evening, dinner?

Too much for date #1

 

3. Weekend evening drinks (or coffee) only?

OK if I have no plans but it could be a while before I am free.

See above about the coffee idea.

 

4. Weekend evening dinner?

Way too much for date #1

 

5. Friday happy hour?

I'd rather do that once I know him in case one more drink became one too many for me.

 

6. Saturday lunch?

Good for date #2.

 

 

It sounds like -- based on your descriptions -- that if a man were interested in you he would have a hard time going on a date with you.

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