fooloflove Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Hi everyone. i met a guy online and things were going alright we hang out and he talked about his past experiences, we share common interest.. so we decided to meet up after a few days of texting During the first few days of texting, he start3d becoming really touchy, and he said he is hor_ny, i didnt want to have s3x but i gave him a handjob and he did say he enjoyed it and he said it is really good i slowly fell for him but i think he only sees me as a s3x partner i wanted more and i told him he told me it was too rush so i was thinking that he's bull****ing that he doesnt want a relationship with me i left and i stopped talking and giving so much care to him he then came back asking me some random stuff and i acted really cold as because i was giving up hope he noticed i've been replying late and cold replies and he decided to block me on social media, i asked him why did he do that.. and he said he didnt he unblocked me back and said he was mad.. so we talked for another few weeks and things came to be the same as well and he blocked me for the 2nd time now... and he's still saying he didn't block me as in he has his ego etc does he like me? or he's just bored im pretty sure he texts other girls as well and why bother if i didnt give him his attention and block me after i said nasty or cold stuff? why do he care when he doesnt even want me? what should i do?
ExpatInItaly Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 He's an immature creep. No, he doesn't like you. He wants sex and power. As for why you care - do you have issues with low self-esteem? I mean that sincerely, no snark intended. You need much higher standards for yourself. 3
Gloria25 Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 Sorry, IMO, a lot of those "dating" sites are full of guys who only want sex. For the life of me, why don't they go on Tinder, Craigslist, Ashley Madison? So, forget this guy - doesn't matter if you met him on a so-called "dating" website, he just wanted sex. 2
smackie9 Posted January 1, 2017 Posted January 1, 2017 This guy just wanted to bang you and nothing more....realizing you were getting too googlie eyed for his liking, and since you were not hitting him up for sex, he wasn't going to waste anymore of his time. He can't be bothered so he blocked you. 3
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 He's an immature creep. No, he doesn't like you. He wants sex and power. As for why you care - do you have issues with low self-esteem? I mean that sincerely, no snark intended. You need much higher standards for yourself. Thanks for ur reply, i'm just wondering why do he want power over me? Is it a guy thing? He acted really differently after i started ignoring him and he make it like i did something wrong. I don't encounter low self esteem issue, it's just that i actually liked him and thought something good could happen, he told me he dislike my personality and i even started to change for him.
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Sorry, IMO, a lot of those "dating" sites are full of guys who only want sex. For the life of me, why don't they go on Tinder, Craigslist, Ashley Madison? So, forget this guy - doesn't matter if you met him on a so-called "dating" website, he just wanted sex. I told him really straight that i wouldn't give him what he wanted, and he seem to be still trying for some time and:sick: implying.. and even said stuff like wanting me to see him again.
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 This guy just wanted to bang you and nothing more....realizing you were getting too googlie eyed for his liking, and since you were not hitting him up for sex, he wasn't going to waste anymore of his time. He can't be bothered so he blocked you. I asked him why did he blocked me, he said it's because i ignored his msg, he is really childish, he's at his late 20s.
smackie9 Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 I asked him why did he blocked me, he said it's because i ignored his msg, he is really childish, he's at his late 20s. I doubt very much that is the reason. What is stopping him from lying? He is just a manipulative jerk that gets off on playing games with the emotionally vulnerable. 3
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 I doubt very much that is the reason. What is stopping him from lying? He is just a manipulative jerk that gets off on playing games with the emotionally vulnerable. I think he is lying to ignore the fact that he is childish af. Yes is he so manipulative that i always get into this cycle that he's gonna make everything my fault.. and he seems to be still on the dating apps constantly even when we're talking a lot, i think you're right he just wants sex.. :(
winny Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 He did you a favor by blocking you. Block him back. You don't need anyone who doesn't treat you right. 4
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted January 2, 2017 Posted January 2, 2017 Sounds like he just wanted to hookup, and he could have been a bit more straightforward about his intentions. That being said if you want a romantic future with a guy you should abstain from any sex acts (including handjobs) until you're a few dates in at least. If they just want a hookup they will usually bail if you don't bang on the first date. 2
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 He did you a favor by blocking you. Block him back. You don't need anyone who doesn't treat you right. The funniest thing he ever did is he blocked me on everywhere and left 1 app that is unblocked..( probably want me to get back to him thru this app). this guy is really into mind games. im so tired of this!!
Author fooloflove Posted January 2, 2017 Author Posted January 2, 2017 Sounds like he just wanted to hookup, and he could have been a bit more straightforward about his intentions. That being said if you want a romantic future with a guy you should abstain from any sex acts (including handjobs) until you're a few dates in at least. If they just want a hookup they will usually bail if you don't bang on the first date. But he did not bail after rejecting sex.. he actually still talked to me for couple of weeks until we got into fights :confused:, i only gave him a handjob because he really wanted it.. and maybe of my wrong act, he would have thought im a slut? but honestly, i just had the urge to satisfy him
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