Dianababe35 Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 So basically I was with him for a year ,we broke up because he had to go to college so he said he didn't want to cheat on me.he stopped liking my photos and stopped all contact. after s month I was in agony because I wanted to see him and talk to him so much and he replied 'is everything ok?' When I asked to meet up.when we met up it was amazing .He said everything j wanted to hear and everything made sense and I said oh are you not going to talk to me again so and he said I will ...we then kissed which was the most intense passionate kiss we've ever had ...then I went home and texted him but on text he was so different ,so distant,and didn't reply for hours when usually he would quickly .We planned to meet up again but he was going on holidays so said he'd text me after he was back and I reviewed no text .So I gave up..then we went out clubbing and I saw him during Christmas ..he was pretty drunk but we kissed again and it was such an amazing feeling ..I asked him why he's been ignoring me he said because he doesn't want to hurt me even more and said how he DID love me.... So then they were going to a different nightclub but I had to go home and he begged me to go but I couldn't .. And next day found out he was kissing another girl there ..I was in absolute bits.A few days later we went out again and he was sober .I called him over to talk and he was being distant but said that kissing her he was doing nothing wrong (which I agree)but feel like it ment nothing to him kissing him all night and being with him.I actually felt sick to my stomach so I went home . he went to another nightclub so I'm guessing he kissed same girl and I asked him before would you kiss her again tonight and he said probably and I got angry and he said I'm just being honest with you something I've always been.it was his birthday and I texted him a day after and he's not opening my message for hours now after me seeing him online !!! Please help me I'm literally just going crazy and crying !!!
ExpatInItaly Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Stop kissing this guy! Stop contacting this guy, period. You are allowing him to use you for physical affection. He doesn't want more than that, and he's been very clear about it. You need to let go, OP. He already has.
dumbass2 Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 He likes you and likes you kissing you. He likes kissing other girls as well. He obviously does not want what you want, which is to get back in a relationship. You're not on the same page. He's told you he doesn't want that with you. He will kiss you whenever but that's it. Do not expect a relationship with this guy. He's probably open to a FWB's but you would not be able to handle that if you said you would. Stop communicating with him. Stop chasing him. Stop kissing him!!
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