Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 I have been talking to a guy for 2 weeks. We went on a date and after that date he wanted to see me everyday for the next five days. I didn't see him the next day but went on three more dates. We had the most amazing chemistry that I've ever had with anybody... on our last date we agreed to have sex. The next day he left for 5 days for vacation. I haven't heard from him since he aboard the plane. Which was 2 days ago I am not sure if I should text him please help
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 I would leave him alone and wait for him to contact you.
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Thank you I think if we didnt have sex I wouldn't even worry about hearing from him as much
ExpatInItaly Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Nah, don't text him. You two barely know each other, so wait and see if he reaches out when he's back. He's on holiday and you've only been on a few dates so I'd just go about my own thing while he's gone. Out of curiosity, where did you meet him?
TunaCat Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Let him enjoy his vacation. If he doesn't text you or call you when he gets home, then he was probably only after the sex.
joseb Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Here is how I approach it. If I want to text someone, I do. If I don't feel like it for some reason, I don't. Don't overthink it. 1
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 On a dating site. Yeah he told me he'd see me when gets back. But I keep worrying that he might think I do this stuff with everybody. Or that I don't like him if I'm not texting him. I know that last part is stupid LOL
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Here is how I approach it. If I want to text someone, I do. If I don't feel like it for some reason, I don't. Don't overthink it. This is how I operate too, but he's probably distracted and having a good time. Plus, the same can be said of him. 1
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 He is a very busy person and one thing he made clear was finding someone who respected his time. And his lasrelationships they were needy. Not that anybody likes needy LOL
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 This is how I operate too, but he's probably distracted and having a good time. Plus, the same can be said of him. This is how I normally operate to which is why this is very hard for me
joseb Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 He is a very busy person and one thing he made clear was finding someone who respected his time. And his lasrelationships they were needy. Not that anybody likes needy LOL Ok, in that case, I'd probably not text till he is back.
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 He's visiting family and friends. And he did text me before he got on the plane so I guess if he wasn't interested I wouldn't have heard from him at all after the deed
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Yeah, all you have to do is SAY the word "needy" and that scares the bejeezus out of people and sends them running for the hills. 1
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Lol and jealous and insecure. He wants someone with confidence... we all do but again something very important to him
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Lol and jealous and insecure. Yeah, those words too. And clingy. I'm not afraid of any of those words. I'm afraid of the opposite!
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Which words all of them!??!?!
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Which words all of them!??!?! All of them! 1
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Your brave! I guess I am not afraid of them either lol
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Why does sex have to be a deal-breaker all the time it's supposed to be a good thing. Even if it's completely awesome it's based on how soon it was done. Grow the **** up people really 1
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Why does sex have to be a deal-breaker all the time it's supposed to be a good thing. Even if it's completely awesome it's based on how soon it was done. Grow the **** up people really You're jumping to conclusions. Calm down! 1
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 You're jumping to conclusions. Calm down! Thank you popsicle 2
Popsicle Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Thank you popsicle Have you noticed that the time here is off? I see everything.
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 Green? No popsicle I didnt surprisingly
Author Yaya0620 Posted December 31, 2016 Author Posted December 31, 2016 It's almost really pathetic. And I can't go out tonight cuz I work tomorrow so I'm sitting home which makes it worse 1
winny Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Either you are needy or you are not... you cannot somehow be un-needy by acting a certain way on your texts... ha ha And needy is when your happiness depends on the actions of others - which means most of the population is needy. When we get a nice compliment we get super happy... that's the beginning of neediness coz then when you don't get the compliments anymore you start acting the opposite of super happy. So, whether it is good or bad behavior of others, if it triggers huge emotions in you, happy or sad, you are needy. This guy may not text you ever again... if accepting this eventuality doesn't trigger a big reaction in your heart, you my friend are not needy. Doesn't matter whether you text him or not. 1
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