Gloria25 Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 I'm watching TV and on this show this is like the tenth time I've seen spouses take back spouses after some crazy stuff went down. On this one, wive stabbed guy with knife cuz she was drunk and he wouldn't give her keys to drive (she wanted to pic up more whiskey). His rationale was that she was drunk would never have stabbed him if she was in her right mind . The prosecution also dropped the case cuz he wouldn't press charges. They're still married, happy, and she isn't drinking anymore. What's the worst that someone has done to you that you'd be capable of forgiving/or actually forgave them? Were they sincerely sorry? Did you both move on from the thing?
mikeylo Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 Forgiveness is a character trait. It comes straight from the heart not from head. From my experience, sensitive people tend to forgive others because they can read and pick up little things that the offender may not know themselves. That said , relationships are not cut in stone. There are people who will work through the hard times while others run at first sign of problem. Some bring out the worst in us while others the best. Forgiveness, wrong doing , remorse, love, hate , irritating traits ( that some begin to love later ) etc etc are in a big picture that make or break. Of course some other guy would have let her rot in prison but he knows her and has seen the good and bad times. Maybe she is an excellent partner for him and it was an accident? If this happened to me , I too would have done the same. Everyone has there own deal breakers.
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