Dumped the Dirty Girl

[SuperDestination]

The girl I was dating invited me to her house the other night. Went there. When things got heated up I looked at the untidy & unmade bed and asked "When was the last time you washed your sheets?" She said 3 weeks ago. I felt like I threw up in my mouth a lil and was only going to go with "Yikes!" but then I said "Did you have sex on this?" She paused .... and said "Well, my ex slept on here a few weeks ago, so yeah!" I got the f ... out of there. Dirty dirty girl. And her bathroom was disgusting, too. This is an MIT grad, not that it is correlated but. Just can't date a dirty girl. And later I found out she had rats in the house. My God. She had a 10K Piano in the house but can't hire a maid? What is wrong with some girls. Don't they know it is super unattractive?

[RecentChange]

Oh girls do not have the lock down on this! There are just as many fliyhy dirty guys.

 

Man, in college I knew a number of straight wealthy guys, that lived like pigs. Always had staff growing up, and now that they were in college, they didn't have house keeper any more.

 

Ugh, but sheets the ex slept on!?! Nasty, why would she even admit to that?

[SuperDestination]

Oh girls do not have the lock down on this! There are just as many fliyhy dirty guys.

 

Man, in college I knew a number of straight wealthy guys, that lived like pigs. Always had staff growing up, and now that they were in college, they didn't have house keeper any more.

 

Ugh, but sheets the ex slept on!?! Nasty, why would she even admit to that?

 

Well I don't date guys so I don't know what their house look like when they invite a girl. I know when I invite a girl out I tidy up the house, clean the bathroom, and put new sheets on. Isn't that common sense? What I saw was just nasty! It is not like I saw semen with blue light or anything but it was dirty enough for me to question. Like you expect me to have sex on unwashed sheets you had sex with another guy? I don't care how busy you are. Not sure what she was thinking. She has been blowing up my phone ever since. She knows that is why I left the house but I didn't tell her she is really dirty (her bathroom floor covered in dust and hair, unemptied trash box, the rat story). I mean I can't date a girl like this. If you tell her "You are the dirtiest girl I know!" you are a bad person. If you ghost her you are a bad person. But that was a pretty disgusting experience. Those dirty wrinkled light blue sheets hunt me in my nightmares now. I don't think I will respond to her calls. I already told her she needed to clean up.

[joseb]

Personally I think your being a bit melodramatic.

 

If that's the worst dating experience you have, then count yourself lucky.

 

Just accept she is messy and not a good fit and move on.

I think telling her is ok, she probably knows it anyway, and if not it might help.her clean up her act a bit.

[SuperDestination]

Personally I think your being a bit melodramatic.

 

If that's the worst dating experience you have, then count yourself lucky.

 

Just accept she is messy and not a good fit and move on.

I think telling her is ok, she probably knows it anyway, and if not it might help.her clean up her act a bit.

 

I didn't say worst. I said the dirtiest girl I know. I did move on but she is blowing up my phone constantly.

[SuperDestination]

Personally I think your being a bit melodramatic.

 

If that's the worst dating experience you have, then count yourself lucky.

 

Just accept she is messy and not a good fit and move on.

I think telling her is ok, she probably knows it anyway, and if not it might help.her clean up her act a bit.

 

You think I am being melodramatic because I didn't wanna roll around another guy's semen? Come on man.