Grey40 Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 How do you guys interpret a good Second date? Are there signs or signals girls give that let's you know the second date was good and they'd be open to hanging out again? Or is the only barometer to ask them out again? It was hard for me to tell if she's really that into me or not. I mean she did agree to go on a second date and did show up, so there's that. We did make out a lot on the second date but nothing further. She seemed to keep her body language fairly closed, had her arms crossed at times, and she didn't flirt/make any sexual advances back to me. She didn't stop me from kissing her, but don't girls usually reciprocate more? We were in "public" but were far out of sight in our own private area really. No one could see us or anything. What threw me off also is at the end of the date she said "hope I'll see you again sometime eventually though I don't know now that I'm going back to work next week." But she did text me saying "thanks I had a nice time"after the date.
Weezy1973 Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Did you have a good time? Was it a good date for you? That's all that really matters. If you did, ask her out again. You can't control how she feels about it.
BoatsBoatsBoats Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Seems fine to me. She could just be the conservative type of girl who doesn't like to get sexual early on, who knows? You've got nothing to lose by asking her out again!
Author Grey40 Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 Yeah I always worry that I'm not being aggressive enough on these dates to push toward the sexual, but I don't want to come off like that's all I'm looking for either, it's a fine line to be on.
winny Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 You have lot of insecurity. If you like her ask her out again. That's all there is to it. If she shows up - good, else plenty of fishes in the sea... Take control.
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