mano Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 My ex broke up with me mid of October but we were sort of in touch with each other, which was usually me initiating contact and fixing things. we would fight a hell lot too just accusing each other and taking out our frustration. Nothing good, just negativity until had we stopped talking. A month ago after two weeks of no contact I reached out myself to fix things, told him I still love him and want to make things work and that I believe he is the one. He was too cold, but said I haven't lost him, he is just stuck in deep **** in his life. Would talk and seemed confused himself, would get affectionate one day and the next would fight and abuse me and tell me to move on and just forget him. I kept pressing him to come back and be like before and he would keep resisting and fight and abused me really bad, that i had to block him on twitter, I deleted my instagram too cause I said fine I gotta let go and move on. He just wanted us to stay in touch and would go crazy cause I'd keep getting emotional and ask him to come back. Abused me really bad. I just didn't see the point of just talking like friends cause I had deep feelings and it hurt to be in contact and not being with the person. Now, after almost one whole month of no contact, he is calling me since yesterday, I haven't yet responded but it is definitely driving me nuts. 10 missed calls yesterday and again today too. He really hurt me a lot, said really mean things, I know he was having the worst time of his life and he would take out all of his **** on me, I kept begging and putting up with the mistreatment, he said he doesn't love me and I have to move on, which I believe was a lie, he was obviously very much affected so I don't know why was he resisting and denying our connection. I just don't know what to do, I certainly don't feel comfortable talking on the phone, I don't know if he is just curious now that I've stopped chasing, wants to apologize or wants to get back. I still love him and have been missing like crazy. Please any advice. 1
dumbass2 Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 "he is just curious now that I've stopped chasing" You answered your question right here. It's human nature. He's curious just like you probably are about him and what he's doing/thinking. He called and never left any messages. I never call anyone back that just calls and hangs up. It means they had nothing important to say or else they would have left a message or follow up text. Leave it alone and continue on as you were. Do not initiate and do not answer. I'd probably block his number after the 10 missed calls. You have to give this some time away. Let emotions die down. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship anyhow. Way too much arguing no matter what the excuse. 1
Author mano Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 "he is just curious now that I've stopped chasing" You answered your question right here. It's human nature. He's curious just like you probably are about him and what he's doing/thinking. He called and never left any messages. I never call anyone back that just calls and hangs up. It means they had nothing important to say or else they would have left a message or follow up text. Leave it alone and continue on as you were. Do not initiate and do not answer. I'd probably block his number after the 10 missed calls. You have to give this some time away. Let emotions die down. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship anyhow. Way too much arguing no matter what the excuse. You're right. As for not messaging he doesn't have a sim ever since he came back to our country from UK. We would text on Twitter and instagram which I've deleted because of all this turmoil. As much as I'm affected and tempted to talk I think I should stay away. 1
dumbass2 Posted December 31, 2016 Posted December 31, 2016 So he he could have left voice messages? Yes, stay away
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