seabiscuit Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 I'm going to keep this short (hopefully). i started talking to this girl about a month ago. and we started out talking on the phone. well we finally meet each other and we hit it off really good. and then out of the blue i couldn't get her to hang out and eventually she stopped calling as much. so i was just going to write her out of my book. then i get a call that shes pregnant. and i ask if that is why she wasn't calling and she said yes. but she still doesn't call that much, as a matter of fact it took her over a week to call me after she told me. what could she be thinking? what do i do? there is alittle more to the story but not much. but i thought i would keep it as short as possible
RecordProducer Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 I don't get this. You say she is pregnant as if you said she had a headache that went away in a few hours. I assume the baby is not yours. Of course, she doesn't feel like dating a new guy while being pregnant and probably still has feelings (good or bad) about her recent ex. The timing was bad. Talk to her and give her time to become addicted to you. If the baby is yours then you better write more about your relationship, like how old you both are, whether she wants to keep the baby, how you reacted, etc.
seabiscuit Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 like i said before there's more to the story i just wanted to keep it short. sorry if i made it sound like her being pregnant was like a headache (which probably makes me sound like cold hearted jerk). its just that i am very confused and i don't even know what to write. yes the baby is mine. and when she told me i wasn't a jerk about it. i told her that i wasn't going to let her go through this alone and that i was going to be here for her. our relationship, if thats what it could of been called, is very short. we talk on the phone more than we hang out. she is 18 and i am 21. even though i was very supportive and caring it seems she doesn't want me in her life. she hasn't made a choice on what she is going to do and she hasn't asked me what i thought. should i wait till she asks or should i tell her? should i call her even though she doesn't call back or should i give her space? i am very confused and any advice i would appreciate. thanks
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