cliverd123 Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Hi, Me and my ex have been broken up a while now and we have both moved on with our lives. We both had issues we needed to resolve and make some positive changes. I begged for my ex back for a while and we did try to be friends speaking regularly but this pushed her further away to the point where she blocked me on everything (lol). We didn't speak for a month then I messaged her on Instagram and we had a brief conversation before she just randomly ignored my previous message. Things blew up and it ended with her saying 'we are not going to be friends or get back together' and then blocked me again on Instagram. I was blocked on everything until a while ago, I'm not sure exactly when but I noticed it just before xmas. I thought she may never unblock me, I've not messaged her and I don't really intend on doing so. I know that I need to move forward in my own life without holding on to any hope that she may come back. I would like to speak with her though, we had a good relationship despite arguments and tough times. We both are our own people and are extremely determined within our own lives. I'm really looking if anyone could give me their opinion on why she has unblocked me? I know it doesn't mean anything because if she wanted contact she would contact me but I can't help feel that she may miss me or expect me to message her etc. I guess having my attention all the time may have been some comfort to her, I have no idea if she is dating etc but it doesn't seem so. Again nothing in reality but she hasn't deleted any photos of us on her fb like kissing and hugging etc. What do you think?
marky00 Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Pretty simply really and you know the answer yourself. She figures you have calmed down, healed somewhat and on the path to moving on so no reason to block you right? It's that simple. Talking to her would be a bad idea unless you like barbed wire passing up your nostrils.
Author cliverd123 Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 haha! I like your honesty. I agree talking or trying to talk to her would be a bad idea. I imagine at some point I will try to contact her but not just yet. I think time is on my side here really.
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