caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 (edited) I am hopefully about to embark on a bit of fun with an older woman. I am 30. She is 53. She is my mothers friend and she is also married but separated. We had a romantic moment the other day and it was clear that she liked me. I've then asked her out for a day out and to a hotel and she has said yes. I then replied with I can't wait to see you and received nothing. This was 3 days ago Do I continue to text her and come across as needy or would it be ok and acceptable to ask her to let me know when she is free. I definitely want to see her again so I don't want to put her off Edited December 30, 2016 by caretoimagine
Author caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 All I want to say is "let me know when you are free, so we can meet up"?? Is that ok?!
VeveCakes Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Do you want to date her or just slee with her? Why the hotel?
Author caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 Because she has a ten year old child and I live away from her hometown. I would have to travel to meet her. Plus her husband is an influential figure in her life still. I doubt I could date her openly. They are separated for all intents and purposes though. I don't know how interested she is in me and not sure whether to wait for her to contact me.
VeveCakes Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Can you please answer the question? You can go for dinner and drinks etc, no need for a hotel unless you want to just get laid - nothing wrong with that if you are just honest about it. Is she still living with her husband? 1
Author caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 (edited) I wouldn't want to date her at this moment in time. I do find her very attractive though and would like to get to know her better so who Knows in the future. Her husband lives in another house. He does spend a lot of time at her house though. Edited December 30, 2016 by caretoimagine
mikeylo Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 If your mother comes to know about it in future , will you be okay with it ?
Author caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 Not really that bothered tbh. I wouldn't tell her myself but if she found out I wouldn't be that bothered.
Author caretoimagine Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 Without going into detail the only way this has developed sprung from a party last week. It was obvious she enjoyed the attention I gave her and was happy to act on it. She just doesn't seem that keen though. Unsure if it's just the age gap or if she regrets what happened. It would only be for sex as far as I can imagine as she may be officially separated but the husband still dotes on her but I don't think she is that keen. I think he still financially supports her. I'll just let her steer this now. Suffice to say I do find her very attractive though and wouldn't think twice about meeting up with her. A lot easier for me though as I have no ties.
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