Addison Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 Ok, so let's pretent that instead of always saying, "Move on, you don't need them", just for a moment we can really believe in second chances and that ex's really do come back because they made a mistake and love us. (I know, I know, this is a long shot most of the time, but we're pretending!) Is NC still the best route or would it be better to keep in contact and let them know that you care? (Keeping in mind that I DO want this to work in my case.) I already know what kind of response I'm going to get to a question like that, but I'm the one that initially pushed him away (but did NOT want to break up). I just don't want it to be too late. And I don't know if NC would just make him feel like he was right all along or if letting him know occassionally that I still love him would be better. This guy is wonderful and I really messed up. And I know that people are saying that it has been 2 weeks so it's very unlikely he is coming back, but people break up for years and get back together if it's meant to be. I refuse to give up right now. I just can't walk away...
Author Addison Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 I agree. I really believe that it's important for me to continue to show him that I do love him. I'm terrified that by NC he will get the impression that I'm ok with the break up and then he won't fully think things through. I know everyone probably thinks that I'm grasping at straws but I'm trying to be as realistic as possible. I know sometimes they don't come back... but like you said, if it's meant to be, then it will be. I believe in him and in us too much to just walk away...
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