froggiekisses Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 is it possible to make it for a young single mother with no skills when she leaves her husband she leaves with nothing but a suitcase and her child... does anyone have any success stories for this situation im considering putting myself in?
iwillsurvive Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 YES You can survive! I am not in the same situation, I don't have a child. But yes you can make it and there has to be people here with a similar situation in their past or present. good luck
hen Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 Yes, you can definitely survive. I doubt you have "no skills". You probably have skills but you haven't thought of them as skills before. You need to work what you are going to do then how to do it. But you can do it. I know people who have done it.
Author froggiekisses Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 I just feel like im gonna be sick i havent slept or eaten in 2 days.. i dont understand how a marriage can fall apart this much in the matter of 2 weeks.. he didnt even cheat on me! i'm so miserable.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 Originally posted by froggiekisses I just feel like im gonna be sick i havent slept or eaten in 2 days.. i dont understand how a marriage can fall apart this much in the matter of 2 weeks.. he didnt even cheat on me! i'm so miserable. It's never to late to try and fix it.. You need to take care of yourself and try to sleep and eat .. I know it's hard but you need to and you need some time to regroup and collect your thoughts, if only 24 hrs ..
Author froggiekisses Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 i've been thinking about taking the baby and going up north to visit some family.. make it a 2 weeks trip with a return ticket already bought.. so we can have a break from each other. and hopefully work it out.. i feel as if hes all but given up tho.. im not sure if a trip would so more harm or good...
hen Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 The trip sounds like a good idea. A bit off space to get your head in order and get some support from family. I am going through something similar.
Author froggiekisses Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 well here i go eating my words as usual.. he did cheat on me .. i figured it out last night. we're getting a divorce
DoggyDog Posted September 14, 2005 Posted September 14, 2005 You can make it. My sister left on a bus with her then son who was 3 yrs old. She stayed with my mother, found a little job. Then a better job. Thank God she left there when she did. Her husband could have made her stay in that state if he knew what she was doing. Oh, she also took the car and parked it at the bank with a note. It was really hard on her. She and her son looked like refugees (skinny etc). But down the road, her son is 22 now in college, she married again, and has a 10 yr old daughter. There is no contact with the a>>>>hole. He even had the nerve to send pictures of his new family to his son and my sister. My nephew wants nothing to do with his father and considers my sisters husband now as his dad. He was always there. So hang in there and a new life will come which will be better for you and your son. L Doggydog
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