Pugwash Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 I'm sure many of you know about my break up with my ex fiance over the past few weeks! Anyhow I was doing really well, not thinking about her new relationship and looking at the bigger picture. I was on facebook the other day and I'm still friends with a few of her friends on it, well a picture popped up of my ex (she looked really well) and my heart was pounding I was like ffs but I was soon past it, first time I had that feeling about her since we last saw eachother so it was weird. Today I arrived home from work to see a shiny yellow bag at my doorstep, for some reason I got this gut feeling in jest and was about to say to my mam who was beside me "wouldn't it be funny if it was from (my ex) " I went out and opened the card, ignoring the gifts in it and the card was from all of her family and her name was on it! I know 100% it was her mam who sent it in but it was heart wrenching to see "Love from etc and my ex's name on it" It felt so weird seeing her name on a card (even though it was all her mam's doing) I know I'll always love my ex and there will always be a special place in my heart for her even in 40 years time but it's amazing how something so small can trigger feelings eh! Love is a funny old game isn't it
preraph Posted December 30, 2016 Posted December 30, 2016 Well, that was a crap thing for her mom to do to you. Not fair. And very pushy. Be glad you're not marrying into that. 2
Author Pugwash Posted December 30, 2016 Author Posted December 30, 2016 Well, that was a crap thing for her mom to do to you. Not fair. And very pushy. Be glad you're not marrying into that. Yeah, I just couldn't get my head around seeing my ex's name on the card with lots of love included in the sentence! I'm only single 6 weeks or so! I'm still deeply in love with my ex but knew in order for me to be happy long term I had to break up with her. It was so tough, I asked my mam could I just throw out the card and she said it would be childish to do so! Maybe a slight over-reaction on my part, but when I saw her name on the card I immediately thought "wow parts of me do miss her a lot and how weird would it be still being together" and memories flooded straight back
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