bright_star Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 My ex is so lost and confused he constantly lies and does all the wrong things he possibly could in a relationship including taking drugs. I believe he's mentally unstable. He doesn't have the 'I don't care factor' he just keeps messing up time and time again. He hates himself. He treated me so badly and in the end he walked away from me in the most brutal way. After 4 months I started talking to him and I never knew I had it in me to be that forgiving to a point I could even talk to him. I'd seen him about 4 times trying to pick him up and help him on the track of becoming a better man. There was no sexual interaction. I've gone with the flow of being a friend and see how he's progressing. I sincerely believe this is what he wants for himself. I saw him last night. We had lunch saw a movie and had dinner it was a big day. He messaged me saying he feels I don't like him much anymore. It's not true I'm only keeping my guard there as I naturally should. He burnt the life out of me but he's so so screwed up. He's put a pic on Facebook he was with druggies at a party. He lied about it at first then said I went last night I took drugs there. I'm so sorry I'm weak I've made an appointment to see a psychologist I really want to fix myself but obviously I cannot be trusted. I understand if you don't want to have anything to do with me but I really hope you stick around. He's deactivated his account I'm ignoring him I can only imagine what state he's in. I don't believe he's trying to hurt me he's got issues I have to give it to him he was honest where he said what he did then said he can't be trusted. I don't know weather to stick around while he's genuinely trying to help himself. And yes.. I love him. I sometimes wonder why but I do.
basil67 Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 You wonder why you love him. Do you know this is the best question you've asked yourself here? Write us a list of all the reasons you love him. Discover for yourself whether you are truly in love with him....or if you love the man you think he could be. You may find that you love someone who doesn't exist. That said, I wouldn't be giving him the time of day. I have no space in my life for a person who chooses the behaviour that he does.
Redhead14 Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 My ex is so lost and confused he constantly lies and does all the wrong things he possibly could in a relationship including taking drugs. I believe he's mentally unstable. He doesn't have the 'I don't care factor' he just keeps messing up time and time again. He hates himself. He treated me so badly and in the end he walked away from me in the most brutal way. After 4 months I started talking to him and I never knew I had it in me to be that forgiving to a point I could even talk to him. I'd seen him about 4 times trying to pick him up and help him on the track of becoming a better man. There was no sexual interaction. I've gone with the flow of being a friend and see how he's progressing. I sincerely believe this is what he wants for himself. I saw him last night. We had lunch saw a movie and had dinner it was a big day. He messaged me saying he feels I don't like him much anymore. It's not true I'm only keeping my guard there as I naturally should. He burnt the life out of me but he's so so screwed up. He's put a pic on Facebook he was with druggies at a party. He lied about it at first then said I went last night I took drugs there. I'm so sorry I'm weak I've made an appointment to see a psychologist I really want to fix myself but obviously I cannot be trusted. I understand if you don't want to have anything to do with me but I really hope you stick around. He's deactivated his account I'm ignoring him I can only imagine what state he's in. I don't believe he's trying to hurt me he's got issues I have to give it to him he was honest where he said what he did then said he can't be trusted. I don't know weather to stick around while he's genuinely trying to help himself. And yes.. I love him. I sometimes wonder why but I do. Should I walk? -- You should RUN as fast as you possibly can.
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