katty Posted July 17, 2005 Posted July 17, 2005 OK as if breaking up with me yesterday was not enough he calls me a few minutes ago and starts talking and then he gets down to the real reason he called me, he had heard something last night and wanted to find out from me, he said that a guy told him that the night of a friends party (same night that the ex and I finally kissed but were not officially a couple yet) that I had told some other man (non-attractive and not my type) to stay when he was leaving and I would make it well worth it. First and foremost this is not me and if it was I wouldn't say that to this particular guy. I told my now ex exactly what little bit of conversation I had with the man and also told him that the guy had some type of tropical drink made with vodka and he had given me a glass of it. That was it. My now ex said he knew I hadn't done that bc it didn't sound like me at all. it really hurts my feelings that people are out there making up lies to make me look bad. He then ask me what I did last night. I didn't really want to tell him but he was talking as if we were once again buddies and he knew about this guy who lives a couple of hours away that I was dating some before we got together on a more serious level. so then he proceded to say Did you go out on a date with Bob last night? I knew that he would hear it from my sister if I didn't telll him so I said "Yes I did" He said " Well thats good, did you have a good time?" I said " It was OK" He then ask me if I met him half way or if Bob came here, I said I actually went to Charleston b/c Bob has been dying for me to see his house, he had ask me several times before we ever started dating to come and see it, so I met him at his house and we went to dinner from there and then I came home. He said "Well thats nice" Now here is where I am confused people, its not as if I volunteered this information he ask me. He waivered back and forth yesterday claiming to not want me to date other people even though he just dumped me to telling me I should. He told me he didn't really do much, just hung out with his parents and played games. etc We made a little small talk and then I ask him if he missed me at all. I know stupid stupid Kat, he said "I'm not allowed to miss you" I said "Your not allowed to, by who?" He said "myself and then he said of course I miss you" I told him I missed him to. I am so stupid. He told me that he just wanted me to know the rumor that was going around and I thanked him for letting me know. WTF, I honestly don't think I can be friends with him. My heart almost stopped when I saw his number come up on my cell phone, I was so hoping that he had a change of heart or that he missed me or something, but all he wanted me to know is that there is a rumor about me. He even agreed with me about the small town lies and told me, why do you think I am leaving this town? Oh well back to square one, I am a total mess now. please help me sort this out before I lose my mind.
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