Brittybritt92 Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Hi everyone, I went on a date with someone I met online the other day. We had talked both texting and on the phone for a few days and the texts were constant back and fourth. Our date went (in my opinion) pretty well for a first date. We got breakfast together and he was making me laugh the whole time. He talked a lot and I could tell he was trying to impress me, but I could also tell he was very confident and intelligent, which was a huge turn on--so I was nervous After breakfast we went to a grassy area where he pulled out his guitar and sang to me. (I know it's so corny but I loved it!) We talked for another hour or so and he kissed me multiple times. We became very affectionate, little kisses on the nose and head, cuddling, and he mentioned going on another date where we could spend a full day together. Once we were walking back to the car he put his arm around me and then held my hand the whole ride home. He dropped me off a little earlier than we planned, but he told me he was trying to "keep it classy" he also mentioned driving home that now he had a lot to think about on his way home (that confused me a bit) He told me he would text me when he got home but texted me a little sooner than I expected with a kissy face "thanks for an amazing date" and then "Ttyl"- I responded with a kissy face and "I had a great time, drive safe! Ttyl" but didn't hear from him all of yesterday. I'm genuinely confused because I thought we had a really nice time, there wasn't a time where I felt like we weren't into each other, and the cutsie text right after the date led me to think he enjoyed it as well... I didn't text him either yesterday to be fair because I just don't want to screw anything up or seem needy. I'm so used to hearing from him though and this has really thrown me off. I've had mixed opinions from friends saying he wasn't really into me or that he is just testing me and waiting for me to text him... he's just always seemed very confident so I figured I would hear from him yesterday morning-- feeling a bit bummed out. What do you guys think is going on? Should I reach out or forget it? Thank you for your opinions!! 1
IfonlyIknew Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Sounds like he had somewhere else to be. Did he pay for the date? His confidence sounds like a serial dater. It's not the first time he pulled out a guitar on a date. 3
Author Brittybritt92 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Posted December 28, 2016 Yeah he did. I'm starting to get the same feeling. I took his constant talking about himself as nervousness but I'm starting to feel like it was a player's arrogance... 2
Satu Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 He sounds a bit too smooth to me. Rehearsed, even. I wouldn't bother pursuing him. Take care. 1
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