Grey40 Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 (edited) So after all my complaining on here about how I can't land a date, I finally landed one. We successfully met on POF and met up last night. Now I need a some advice on how to follow up For a second date. Inc very new to this. I think the date went pretty well I thought. Nothing crazy but good. Lot of common interests, conversation got awkward at times but one of us thought of questions to keep it going. neither of us realized how quickly the time went. Literally 3 hours felt like 30 min. She had a pretty closed stance The whole night, arms crossed and had trouble keeping eye contact but I think she may have been nervous. (but she's was paying attention, no phone or frequent bathroom trips or anything ). As the night Progressed I got closer sat next to her and did some light touching, said she smelled good etc. She didn't reallyreciprocate but she didn't stop me, she was allowing me to escalate. Just some groping on the leg, touching her back etc. we ended ip Kissing very short and light and that was when she wanted to kind Of leave, might have been too much too soon. She waited for my cue/permission to leave though and we went out together. She made out with me again brieflly before getting into the car. This time she went in for it. She said we should do this again. Then she texted me "Thanks again It was really great meeting you. Get Home safe!" I replied basically stating the same. So now what? How long do I wait? Edited December 28, 2016 by Grey40
winny Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 keep the texting going.. if u want to meet her on saturday then i would say ask her by evening tomoro and book her calendar.. that should be fine.
IfonlyIknew Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 ooohh!! Sounds all positive to move forward. I would ask her what her plans are for this weekend, you can ask her today, or small talk today and ask tomorrow, NYE is this weekend, go for it..
AmandaDiane Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Keep texting her, but casual, nothing too romantic... Try to get a second date as soon as you can. Take advantage of the momentum. Keep the same tone you had on the first date! Good luck! Keep us posted!
Gaeta Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Don't text her too much! Once a day is enough, keep the mystery alive a bit. Today we are Wednesday so ask her if she has free time for a date this weekend. It's a busy weekend so waiting tomorrow to ask her would be too little too late. Remember: The objective here is to spend time together, not to become text buddies.
Author Grey40 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Posted December 28, 2016 Unfortunetley I'm already busy this weekend, Friday playing a gig and Saturday already going to see a concert with friends, should I try for Sunday? Or try for earlier?
smackie9 Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Meet up for lunch this week.......keep it casual and fun.
Gaeta Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 Meet up for lunch this week.......keep it casual and fun. Good idea.
Author Grey40 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Posted December 28, 2016 Meet up for lunch this week.......keep it casual and fun. Great idea, she actually suggested that we're going to lunch on Friday and possibly a movie afterward. Feels good to have caught a break after such a long frustrating road of OLD
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