NJ123 Posted December 27, 2016 Posted December 27, 2016 So at work today I had to help some woman out & she was mentioning how she was in a hurry to get to her job at the bar so if I can hold a few things for her until tomorrow. Than as she was leaving she turned around & mentioned where she worked & that I should stop by if I want. I couldn't make out what she said though & she was in a hurry. So I'd have to basically hope I see her again to ask her. But do you think she was likely just being friendly & wanting me to spend money at the bar or would you say she had interest in some way. She seemed to maybe be around 10 to 15 years older than me.
Dis Posted December 28, 2016 Posted December 28, 2016 She's interested Go ahead and stop by at the bar she works at...dont wait for the odd chance you see her again at your place of employment She gave you a clear opening Go for it!
Author NJ123 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Posted December 28, 2016 She's interested Go ahead and stop by at the bar she works at...dont wait for the odd chance you see her again at your place of employment She gave you a clear opening Go for it! The problem is I didn't get to make out what place she works at. I couldn't hear what she said & she was in a hurry to get to work. I'm kicking myself over it since if she actually was interested than she was probably hoping I would show up. And now that I didn't she's probably wondering why & taking it that I wasn't interested. Are you sure as a woman yourself that she was interested or was she likely just being friendly where there was nothing much to what she said? She was a bit older than me I'm pretty sure, likely maybe in her early-mid 40s. But I thought she was attractive.
Author NJ123 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Posted December 28, 2016 She is not interested. When a woman is interested you wouldn't need to ask or question whether she is or not, you would know. I'd pass. Not worth your time. Why would she tell me where she worked though & that I should stop by if I wanted after she told me she was running late for work? I just don't know her intent though for whether it was just her being friendly or if she was interested in some way. So you could be right that she wasn't but I just don't know. I wish I knew the place she worked at though since I probably would have went to get my answer. It's still bothering me a bit not knowing.
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