winny Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 Also, it's the holidays. People get busy and prioritize family and close friends. I agree to everything but not this line... we know how much the younger generation are addicted to phones...
TheTraveler Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 OP, you're living in fantasy land She's in Paris, you're in another country. She returns home in a few months. Shut it all down(messaging, likes, comments, etc) and wait for her to arrive home and try then. Go on about your life and find someone who lives locally.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 I agree to everything but not this line... we know how much the younger generation are addicted to phones... Very true, and what I meant is that she is probably texting with people close to her and has a long list of messages that would bump OP to the bottom of the list. I have no doubt she's communicating with others, but those would be the people she's closer to. Some guy she's never met for whom she's shown low interest would not get a quick reply, whereas others probably do.
Author AdamantyumKrystal Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 OP, you're living in fantasy land She's in Paris, you're in another country. She returns home in a few months. Shut it all down(messaging, likes, comments, etc) and wait for her to arrive home and try then. Go on about your life and find someone who lives locally. Day-Dreaming is awesome ! til a point at least.
Author AdamantyumKrystal Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 Very true, and what I meant is that she is probably texting with people close to her and has a long list of messages that would bump OP to the bottom of the list. I have no doubt she's communicating with others, but those would be the people she's closer to. Some guy she's never met for whom she's shown low interest would not get a quick reply, whereas others probably do. WEll damn, when i got into texting her this second time i said to myself i won't get emotional but it seems rationality isn't my strongest trait, darn it!!
Author AdamantyumKrystal Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 anger and hostility u say.. it was for a brief moment now i don't feel that way anymore i'm just glad i haven't told anything too stupid to her and i can easily get my boots out! Thank u Italy for clearing this fog off or at least trying to, maybe a blunt knife is what we need from time to time other than our intrinsec subjectiv reasoning. I think madness is okay as long as u don't hurt anyone (verbally/physically)
GemmaUK Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 it seems rationality isn't my strongest trait, darn it!! Agreed. As I said before, you seem very angry. Overtly angry over a text which didn't get a reply.
OatsAndHall Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 For anyone who didn't bother to read my thread and starts making futile comments please stop from writing and don't comment if i have to come and xplain the situation to each in particular, i wrote the post for a reason, u don't just come in read what u like and comment in a objective way, and no i don't care if u get upset or something similar, this is a online website to vent out, which is why i am going to do, and yea i have a great "releasing" so if u don't want to get a bucket of sarcasm to the head please refrain ^_^ Releasing what? You're p-ssed off because a girl that you never even went out with stopped texting you? Hmm.. What could have possibly turned her off? Your neediness? Your obsessiveness? Your arrogance? Or maybe it's all that combined with your apparent borderline-illiteracy. I'd pin a metal on this girl for keeping in contact with you in, any manner. Maybe she won some community service prize for doing so.
phineas Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 i do not spend money on women before marriage so nopity nope!!! hard to spend money on a woman who won't go out with you. 1
winny Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 hard to spend money on a woman who won't go out with you. That's not the only way one can spend money on a woman...
stillafool Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 Why not? If i'm free and she's free, then what is it to lose? Your self esteem. Why not leave this one who shows no interest and go after other girls who do? This isn't the only woman on the planet. You're so invested that you are on a forum about her.
phineas Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 That's not the only way one can spend money on a woman... Don't be obtuse. You are wasting your time on this woman and know it but for some reason do not want to admit it to yourself. it's ok. we've all been there once or twice. But if you keep this up you only have yourself to blame for your aggravation.
Space Ritual Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 For anyone who didn't bother to read my thread and starts making futile comments please stop from writing and don't comment if i have to come and xplain the situation to each in particular, i wrote the post for a reason, u don't just come in read what u like and comment in a objective way, and no i don't care if u get upset or something similar, this is a online website to vent out, which is why i am going to do, and yea i have a great "releasing" so if u don't want to get a bucket of sarcasm to the head please refrain ^_^ The fact of he matter is that whether we delve into a situation or peruse a thread, when you subject yourself to asking for advice, you are going to get a smattering of opinions based on both. So your admonition is probably going to fall on deaf ears or looked upon with contempt, and invite even more of it. I'd probably have never commented on your thread in any other circumstance with the exception that you floated a giant Hindenburg above Lakehurst with an invitation to get a heapin' helping of grief. I am not passing a Gimme like that up. Like anything else, take what you need and leave the rest, but threatening to release a bucket of sarcasm is laughable at best. Probably the bucket routine is better done with someone in person than on an online forum, it does not have the same gravitas. No wonder this check went silent on you. Your attitude would turn off a starving prostitute. Toning down that Aggro act over a text would be a good start Which is pretty much the best advice you could get....other than you could benefit by accepting that not everyone is going to find your spiel exciting and worthy of investment. This girl obviously didn't, and that's the breaks. There are a lot of disappointments in life. The farther you get into your life you will learn that with ever increasing regularity. 1
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