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PLEASE ANY ADVISE IS GOOD

I NEED A DIRECTION TO GO

 

Okay so here is it.

 

My partner (lesbian relationship) and I have been seperate for about 4 months now we dated for 4yrs and she has a 8yrs son that's I'm close with.

 

To me our break up came out of no where. (We always go out) she wanted to go out one night and I said no I didn't want to, so she chose to to go out and I said I wouldn't be here if she did. Long story short she went out and I stayed at my parents house. We spoke the next day and had a argument and haven't been together since. But still talk.

 

Since that weekend she has been going out every weekend with a mate I introduced her to and I have recently found out that they have been going on date etc.

 

we are still pretty much hooking up but the other girl is paying for her dinner and expensive dates.

I pretty much told her to let me go and live my life so they can be happy and she told me she isn't ready to let me go and she wants me in her life for ever.

This is taking its toll on me and everytime I get strong and cut contact with her she will contact me out of nowhere and then I'll be spending the night with her..

 

I found out that she spent Xmas with this girl!! And that has torn me apart! since her family has always been my family since I don't have any family.

I called her to today to tell her nomore and she denied the whole things!!

 

I feel like she is really lost! She tells me all I'm doing is pushing her toward this girl n that she chooses this girl over me but we are still hooking up. I don't get it!!

I love her so much that's why I've held onto hope and still give her time even tho she's fu**ed me over

 

I feel like my only option is to tell the girl that we have been hooking for the last 2.5 months. Yes it will push them closer but I feel like it will push her away from me and I can go and live my life!!

 

Please can someone give me advise!!!

My friend say tell her. Hopefully someone else has been in my position and can give me advise

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