Oladeji123 Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 I'm 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. And i was just wondering what are the pros and cons of having a girlfriend? What should i be looking forward to and what should i be dreading as well? 1
Satu Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 It could be heaven or hell, or anything in between. It depends on who they are and who you are. No two relationships are alike. Take care. 1
Shanex Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 Pros: She will cook for you, and offer her body afterwards. Cons: girlfriends are moody and when they have a headaches you can't have sex with them. That will be my profound contributions to LS today. 1
Satu Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 To paraphrase Tolstoy: “All happy couples are alike; each unhappy couple is unhappy in its own way.” Sorry Leo.
Satu Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 Would you like to have a girlfriend? Generally speaking, it should be a more positive than negative experience. That's why people get together. 1
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 25, 2016 Author Posted December 25, 2016 Would you like to have a girlfriend? Generally speaking, it should be a more positive than negative experience. That's why people get together. yhh i would one day. Never had any luck with girls. But i know cute girls have asked me out when i was younger but i just never felt that it would last so i date them.
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 25, 2016 Author Posted December 25, 2016 Talk to us, OP. Hahah, sorry. I will
Shanex Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 yhh i would one day. Never had any luck with girls. But i know cute girls have asked me out when i was younger but i just never felt that it would last so i date them. Are you a shy, introvert person?. Do girls somehow intimidate you, especially group of girls? Have you considered OLD? Do you have hobbies, passions? 1
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 25, 2016 Author Posted December 25, 2016 Pros: She will cook for you, and offer her body afterwards. Cons: girlfriends are moody and when they have a headaches you can't have sex with them. That will be my profound contributions to LS today. Apart from lack of sex, what other negatives are there especially in terms of getting bored, seeing other girls 1
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 Are you a shy, introvert person?. Do girls somehow intimidate you, especially group of girls? Have you considered OLD? Do you have hobbies, passions? Yh im a fairly reserved introverted guy. Girls def intimidate especially in groups. Sometimes, i see a group of girls looking at me as I'm walking past and then they usually smile and start laughing amongst themselves and i immediately feel insecure. Ive always felt fairly insecure about my body. Im a fairly slim/athlethic build but when i was in school people used to make fun of how skinny i was and its stuck with me since, even though my body is more defined now that I'm older. I'm trying online dating but i haven't gotten any luck with that. I think I'm just not an online dating kind of guy 2
Satu Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 If you want it, make it happen by being sociable, and keeping the best of yourself out front, where girls can see it and admire it. Do you feel that there's anything keeping you back from doing that? 1
Shanex Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 OP, I'll speak for my personal experience when I was your age. I was still very immature and looking around. Sometimes sleeping around but not much I was never a 'womanizer'. At about 24, I was in a short relationship for a few months with a 20yo girl. We went to the movies, we waked hand in hand, kissed in public then. Went to restaurants and bars, pubs. One time I even attended her graduation. We didn't spend all our time together and the early part of that relationship is what we call the 'honeymoon', sadly in my case this faded as I wrote too early for me... I regret it, she was great, but I was more flawed than I am now, which is saying a lot. Having a girlfriend is sharing passions, going and hanging out, have sex of course, too. And see where that goes, though you're 24 and if I was in your shoes I wouldn't look forward marriage quite yet. Good luck. 1
Satu Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 I just read your response to Shanex, so my question is redundant. 1
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 I just read your response to Shanex, so my question is redundant. Was just about to tell you to read my other responses 1
Satu Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 Was just about to tell you to read my other responses I did thanks.
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 OP, I'll speak for my personal experience when I was your age. I was still very immature and looking around. Sometimes sleeping around but not much I was never a 'womanizer'. At about 24, I was in a short relationship for a few months with a 20yo girl. We went to the movies, we waked hand in hand, kissed in public then. Went to restaurants and bars, pubs. One time I even attended her graduation. We didn't spend all our time together and the early part of that relationship is what we call the 'honeymoon', sadly in my case this faded as I wrote too early for me... I regret it, she was great, but I was more flawed than I am now, which is saying a lot. Having a girlfriend is sharing passions, going and hanging out, have sex of course, too. And see where that goes, though you're 24 and if I was in your shoes I wouldn't look forward marriage quite yet. Good luck. Reading that sounds awesome. There are days when i just wanna text a female friend and just hang out with them but the girls i know all have boyfriends so i can't hang out with them alone. Plus i can't exactly text them late at night or just have someone to share my feelings with when I'm down in the dumps 1
Satu Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 (edited) If you want to live life, you have to engage with it just as you are now. If you want a girlfriend, you have to engage with girls just as you are now. Any thoughts of "not being good enough" or "unworthy" are just garbage that you have to throw out. You won't meet any perfect girls, so you don't need to be a perfect man. Just be the best of yourself with everyone. Edited December 26, 2016 by Satu 3
Author Oladeji123 Posted December 26, 2016 Author Posted December 26, 2016 If you want to live life, you have to engage with it just as you are now. If you want a girlfriend, you have to engage with girls, just as you are now. Any thoughts of "not being good enough" or "unworthy" are just garbage that you have to throw out. You won't meet any perfect girls, so you don't need to be a perfect man. Just be the best of yourself with everyone. Yhh I'm working towards improving my self. Its just that can't help but notice my own imperfections so when I'm out and i see girls looking at me or laughing amongst themselves after looking at me, i always assume its because of my imperfections.
Satu Posted December 26, 2016 Posted December 26, 2016 Yhh I'm working towards improving my self. Its just that can't help but notice my own imperfections so when I'm out and i see girls looking at me or laughing amongst themselves after looking at me, i always assume its because of my imperfections. As I said, thats the garbage you need to throw out.
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