George9 Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 I think I am kind of getting a crush on my coworker. My guts tell me that she also likes me, but due to our work culture, we rarely have a chance to talk to each other outside the formal environment. When we have chance to talk together, then we tease each other and act playful - however not physically. I am wondering if I should keep on interacting as if I am not interested in her, or somehow indirectly let her know that I like her and would like to go on a date with her? Also is there any good way for me to figure it out if she is really into me or not? 1
yuuki_101 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 Hello You are unsure because of cultural differences ? like what? Alright when you are close to each others ( close friends ) this give you better chances I suggest you to try to talk about topics she like for exemple and impress her with what you know because she would like to meet such interresting men Then make sure you take care of your appearance somehow ( not to exagerate but wearing great clothes and having a good hygiene is attractive) After that start talking about some topics concerning love in general ( and show her that you are sweet and you are very trustful man In the end I wish you good luck ! 1
smackie9 Posted January 10, 2017 Posted January 10, 2017 Grow some and just ask her out....confidence is so sexy. 1
dumbass2 Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 I need some tips about flirting with a coworker Tip #1 Don't get involved Tip #2 see tip #1 Tip #3 see tip #1 and 2 If you never have to interact with your co-worker than maybe, but if you would have to see each other a lot and interact, then no way 1
Satu Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 1. If you're disinterested, act interested. 2. If you're interested, act disinterested. 3. Always take your ex along on dates. 4. Always be honest about how many people you are exclusively dating.
Satu Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 snip *I am wondering if I should keep on interacting as if I am not interested in her, or somehow indirectly let her know that I like her and would like to go on a date with her? Also is there any good way for me to figure it out if she is really into me or not? To be serious: Never act "as if" anything. Always be your authentic self. Never pretend. If you like her, let it show. Take care.
bachdude Posted January 11, 2017 Posted January 11, 2017 Yeah, dude, just ask her out already. Since you two are so playful, how about this... While you two are teasing each other and being playful, just before you part ways say, "I'll see you Saturday". She says,"Saturday? For what?" You say, "We're going on a date. What time is better, 6 or 7?" She says with a smile and surprised look, "My, that's really confident of you!" You say with a sly look, "Oh, I can tell you'd say yes anyway. I know these things. So...I'll see you at 6. Don't be late! I like punctual women!" Haha just having fun. But why not?
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