LordAverage Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 Hi, i'm a 23 year old guy looking for some advice on this "issue". So i'll jump straight into it. I've never had sober sex, except for the casual morning sex after a one night stand. This has bothered me a long time, and it's driving me crazy now as i have just recently started dating. (No prior dating or relationship experience) There is this one girl i've been seeing for about a month now, and we've had 4 dates so far. No sex yet, but it looks like it's just around the corner, which makes me nervous as ****. When i'm drunk it's easy, going from the club to the bedroom. Now when i'm sober i have no idea what to do, when to initiate or if she will notice that i'm inexperienced in "relationship sex". I really like this girl, and i don't want this to be the reason i **** up. Has anyone of you been in the same boat, or had similar experiences? I'd appreciate any answer from both genders! Thanks in advance
Survivor12 Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 My advice: foreplay. Sex starts long before you get to the bedroom (and I don't mean just making out on the couch). Touch her hair, kiss her gently, put your arm around her, listen to her closely when she speaks (even if you aren't interested) & let your eyes do the talking. When the time is right, you'll know it. 1
smackie9 Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 It's like riding a bicycle..once you get back on it all comes back to you. 1
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